iam a easy going guy my ideal match is someone who respects and loves themselves first and foremost i believe you cant love someone if you don't love yourself ..am looking for a independent women who can think for herself ..and has a good head on her shoulders..my turn offs are neediness.. and laziness..i believe different from most men ..i believe a women"s place is where ever she wants to be its not up to me to tell them what they can wear and what that cant wear..i am not into the control thing..i can be secure enough in my self to know if she loves me she will be faithful to me..i don't need to control to get a message a crossed..i love clic rock music ..am a love all kinds of movies iam looking for a relationship on all levels emotional spiritual..and mentally... i hate i think it degrades women..and i stand by those beliefs strongly.. my mom taught me to respect women .. and i do my best to do that...yes iam different ...but ..i think its for good