Was married twice when I was younger and in 08/09 came out of a 16 year relationship. Somewhat skeptical now. Work 8-5 plus on call 24/7 every other week and then some. Have 22 1/2 years into my career. Hoping to last long enough to be able to draw on my 401k without penalty. Have a grown son who comes home a couple times a month to visit. When he does, I like to do what he wants and like to be able to vacation with him when possible. Also have a spoiled Toy Rat Terrier who I love and is my main concern outside of work. My life is so serious and stressful that I'd really like someone who is upbeat, confident, patient, kind, nonjudgmental & won't take me for granted. Looking for someone who enjoys road trips or flights to Europe (Germany especially because my relatives live there) or even Hawaii. Someone who likes to go for motorcycle rides and won't mind if I ride my own bike. Really miss going to church (Baptist preferably) and miss the fellowship. Someone who is a Christian who likes attending church is important. I've become independent mainly out of necessity and am not looking for someone to support me financially but rather, someone who wants to be my equal and enjoys helping in the house (cooking and cleaning). Someone who likes to be around friends and family either at home or out and doesn't mind if family occasionally comes to visit and stays a few days is important. Sorry, but appearance is important as well such as: good hygiene, attractive, not missing teeth when he smiles and dresses according to the occasion. A few extra pounds is not a deal breaker. As far as drinking goes, would like to meet someone who rarely drinks or not at all and when he does drink, it's just one or two. Prefer a non-smoker. As far as my appearance, I'd say I'm a full-figured woman with a few extra pounds who would like have someone to exercise with so we could both be healthy as we get older. Do you like music? Do you like to sing or mind if others sing around you? Singing and music are something that everyone in my family likes. Wow, what a lot to process. Maybe we could break the ice over coffee/soda and go from there. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Best of luck. Oh, forgot to mention, my son is 36 years old so, really looking for someone between 48-56 years old.