Do not start off conversation with how are you and expect me to answer and carry the conversation. If you do, you may be ignored and blocked. Everyone seems to ask this question without introducing themselves. No i don't have nor will use ***. My job is a complicated. I'm still rebuilding my life after some great losses and betrayal. But im doing better gradually so I'm not someone to eff around with and find out. With that said if you earn my trust, and it wont be easy, you will have an ally by your side. If deception is your game though, I will eventually sense it and you will LOSE ALL ACCESS TO ME. This is your opportunity and warning. I was born at night but not last night! I would like to meet a companion 35yo or younger that will make my recreational and down time easier, more relaxing and more pleasurable. Not more complicated. I have a list of disqualifying features in women such as smoking and heavy drinking. Sorry I don't drink wine, I don't drink but once in a blue moon. I just choose not to. I have my reasons. I can't handle *** smoke and I find tattoos and piercings grotesque , pierced ears are ok. if you have fake hair, fake eye lashes, fake nails, fake lips, or butt, and drawn on eyebrows, I consider you fake. Not interested Obesity is not healthy neither mentally or physi***y. I have a maximum weight limit for good reasons. I dont date single moms. Im not into religion or religious dogma . Im not interested in being "saved" i've saved myself from religious nonsense. I have developed my own living life philosophy that grows as I do. I have many layers and parts to my personality and character. You wont instantly get acess to every layer right away . I will know which layers you will have access to . Now since you got this far in the book about me, if we fit like 2 puzzle pieces, I am a gentle loving, kind man with eccentricity. I will be loyal as long as that loyalty and respect is earned. However, if I sense that you are cheating or deceiving me, it will be over instantly. No argument. I'm faithful up until you deserve it no longer. And yes, I've removed the closest people to me because of it. But as long as you are faithful and completely exclusive to me, I offer affection and emotional yet logical support. When you have a problem I do my best to assist you to solve your problem. I do expect reciprocity. If reciprocity is absent on your part, it will cause me to rethink my relationship with you. I offer hugs, kisses and backrubs but I need my space, peace and quiet sometimes. Please respect that need. There are times I need to make and create organized clutter mess and keep it as such it may look like a mess but makes sense in my mind at that time. As soon as my project is done I try to clean up. I place things where I will remember them for a particular purpose, not always where it is out of the way and unseen. It is just how my mind works. If you can tolerate this we might get along. I am not here on this earth to be anyone's knight in shining armor; that is fairytale fantasy nonsense. Thats not my job. Im a human being, I owe you nothing as a man, except courtesy and consideration. i expect same courtesy back. If it is not offered in return, I will question any relationship, and make changes to it with or without you. Show me pics of you planting food in your garden or farm, or with livestock animals or 4-H . To me it shows me how grounded you might be. Its not the only way , but it gives me a physical representation that if *** hit the fan in the world, I know you are less likely to fall apart on me in crisis. Actions speak louder than words. It shows me you can care for living things, Also can show authenticity.