This is the part of online sites that's unreal. I don't pump myself up. Let's talk. That's what these sites are for. Testing the water with getting wet. I will say that I am old fashioned in the full sense of the word. I mean I just purchased my first Blu Ray player! I now own 7 Blu Ray movies...Yay! My ideal mate would be more into passing love notes and being into each other then Facebook. I will tell you right now if you have some kind of cyber addiction that requires that your caught up in Social media sites all day, turn this page. Facebook has been the death of many relationships including a couple of mine. if you have a need to always be in an environment with your tightest skimpiest clothes surrounded by men lusting after you all the time, I'm not the one. I understand when women are single they deal with men. But when you meet someone and something develops, the need for single flirtation should not continue. I've already dealt with the women who want to be single in a relationship. I'm good. If sharing a home cooked meal before I massage those pretty feet. and cuddling with a movie is something you desire over clubbing holla. No party chicks please. My heart can't take it..