It is one thing to know what you want. It is another to know yourself. I don't know either. I describe myself one way, and evidently come across as an entirely different person. It is all really philosophical really, and I don't know much about philosophy. I can tell you what I like. I like cooking, love to do it, but don't like to clean up the mess. I love to bowl and do so while drinking usually, unless I take the kids with. No, I never drink around the kids. Always after they go to bed, and never much if I am driving, only one or two over the course of hours. I have custody of the three kids. I am responsible. I never call into work for stupid childish reasons. I am always punctual. My family and friends can count on me. When I say I am going to be there, I am there, usually early. I like to read. Generally, I am reading nonfiction books. something with substance. Religion, political science, history, and self-improvement books. I love to have a woman to hug and cuddle and kiss on. Watching a movie with my arm around a lucky lady is something I want to have every night of the week. I buy flowers for no reason, just because i want to show a woman I care. This includes sending them to work. I also am not afraid to start holding hands and kissing in public. I will show the world who means the most to me. I can find lyrics to a song for any occasion. Just out of no where, I will start singing them. I love country music, so most are from that. However, I do enjoy oldies, and anything that you can understand the words to the song. One of the best love songs ever is "Truly, madly, Deeply" by Savage Garden. If you made it this far, I applaud you and hope to hear from you. I will tell you anything you want to know.