I am who I am... Yes... The man in the photo has made more than his fair share of mistakes & many times over, as a son, a partner, a father, a friend, a brother & a leader, because he doesn’t always say or do the "right things"... Yes he has secrets... Yes he has regrets... Yes he has scars... Because he is real & has a history... Some people love this man, some like him, some don't care for him at all & some may even hate him...But that is all ok... He has done good in his life... And yes, he has done bad in his life... He can be random & sometimes silly... He can be predictable, spontaneous or totally unpredictable... But he is loyal beyond question, is true to his convictions, his word is his bond & he tries to be the best person he knows how... He will not pretend to be someone he is not... He is who he is... What you see is what you get... Take him as he is or watch him walk away... Love him or not... But know this... If he loves you, he will do it unconditionally with his whole heart... He will protect you till the end & he will do it willingly and makes no apologies for being who he is or the way he is... Life has thrown him curveballs & tested him on numerous occasions from a tender age, yet he never quit & has always fought back & found his ground again... He may not be perfect but he has worth..... I am not looking to change anyone, nor do I wish to be changed... I have a zero tolerance to drugs, women, children & animal abusers, scammers, drama queens & toxic people... I have various hobbies and interests & will share if interested... I am looking for someone genuine, a lover of life & is non high maintenance... A real feminine girly gal to share friendship, interests, outings, quality time & companionship... Possibility of more if suited... I have no baggage, emotional or otherwise, although like most do have life scars... With life's lessons comes knowledge & with age comes wisdom. I know what I want & am too old for mind games & just good enough is no longer an option... Money & wealth does not impress me as true wealth is health and happiness... I am looking for someone genuine, who wants to be happy, to feel safe and secure, wants to feel loved & wants to share & create fond memories, share laughter & tears and does not want to grow old alone... Who knows what the future holds?... Perhaps it is our time?... It has been a long time since I dated, so am pretty rusty, but nothing worthwhile comes easy... Thank you for perusing my ***... May you find what you are looking for...