Hi...originally from PA...Penguin and Steeler fan. Looking for kind, respectful gentleman to do things with. If you’re just here to play games, don’t stop here. Tired of cheaters and liars. I’ve been with a man who wanted a mother. I don’t want that kind of relationship. I want a partner in all things. I want a friend and confidante, someone who will be the person I can lean on in hard times and vice versa. I’m a mother and grandmother. I’m not looking to add to my children. I need a man who can take care of himself but also knows how to take care of his woman. I don’t need someone to support me financially, I’m well able to take care of myself. I’m not looking to support a man either, been there and I won’t be used and abused again. I’m a BBW but I am not desperate because I carry a few extra pounds and I’m not young and my body isn’t what it used to be. I have a large capacity to love the right man. Until then I’m quite happy with my cat and family. I’m romantic, silly, serious, fun, and like an onion I have many layers or a diamond with many facets. Are you man enough to deal with that?