Relaxed11 AM Relaxed11 EDIT 67 • Napier, New Zealand GREETING EDIT Love exhilaration. PHOTO GALLERY EDIT ABOUT ME EDIT I am a happy and positive married man, who is looking for a discrete lady who is also married/attached and has just as much to loose as I do if caught. I am not unhappy in my marriage, but there is zero physical intimacy in an otherwise fulfilling long term relationship (35 years +). Ideally, I would like a "secret relationship" arrangement with one woman only, to explore a connection and the intimate side of life that is missing in my life. It would be nice to chat to begin with, with the view of meeting if there is a spark/connection. I am looking forward to meeting an intelligent woman who also enjoys a good conversation and is not just looking for a meaningless "shag". I have no problem if that is your thing. I enjoy the excitement of meeting someone who has similar (and different) views to my own. I am sure there are ladies out there just like me, who would like to explore their own desires. I think regular one to one meets is better for a connection and hygiene piece of mind.