I am on this site because, as the poet writes, hope springs [foolishly] eternal in the human heart. If you voted for Trump, do not bother to contact me. I am not tolerant of men who think it is appropriate to grab women's crotches nor will I tolerate sexism or racism. There are loads of fat women in pajamas at Walmart for you to try to pick up. Color is the spectrum of the rainbow, not a "type" of human. There is a 99% chance that you are just like other men on this site--and women are no different. Within the sub-genres of biker, cowboy, "normal" guy, and businessmen, you say the same things, have the same interests, and look alike. Some of you have been using the same pictures for five years or more; pictures of you with dead animals do not show a woman that you are a good provider. If your identity rests on the make of car or pick-up that you drive, you are a sad human being. Step out. Step above. Stop using the worn-out cliche "think outside the box" to prove how "different" you are. Be a thinker, be original, be creative. Read books and get rid of your TV. Take a chance, be happy, and if you are not happy with your life, change it. Stop whining, take responsibility for yourself. If you are shallow, keep in mind that women are, too. If you want a good-looking sexy woman, that's what women want, too. (By the way, I am shallow, and I am not interested in obese men for several reasons. I am not (or rarely) physically attracted to men in their 70s.) And to the dinosaurs: believe it or not, old women like me often choose to be single. We do not need you to complete ourselves. Having said that, I love the company of some men; I have more male friends than female friends. I would like to meet liberal, smart men in good health; education is a plus.