I have friends, family, a house, a good career, and various personal projects. I enjoy cooking, walking, traveling once or twice a year somewhere with good natural scenery and hikes. I spend much of my time outside of work on personal projects, including writing, programming, and drawing. I perhaps did not try as hard as I should have to find Ms. Right sooner; I feel a bit old to be dating, but oh well. I have some experience, but I am not a *** (although frankly, I wish now that I had been!) I'm far too old to care about your indiscretions, but realistically a good match probably has a similarly sparse dating history. I like someone who is good at texting and enjoys silly playing pretend. I can be reached on Discord as Particularist.