I would like to be friends first which can lead to a long-term relationship. Communication is key, you must be prepared to write a quality e-mail to me at some point during our friendship. You don't have to be good looking but you must be able to interact. I work in the Healthcare field, I have a roof over my head, a sense of humor, my own hair, my own nails and all my teeth!! I'm a domesticated woman who is very spiritual and intellectual, but not religious. I am physically 'thick'/'curvy' but working to make it stronger and firmer. I am not "normal" by anyone's standards, but considered fun, funny, lively, inspiring, a bit goofy sometimes and a "lovable mess". I enjoy wearing girly clothes but prefer non-glam activities where I am comfortable. I enjoy and care about pleasing the important people in my life.