Dating profiles remind me of craft shows and booths at festivals. I’m trying to cram all of my "best stuff" into a tiny space and hope there is enough of the "right stuff" to attract the "right" person. I ask lots of questions, I'm a great listener, and I appreciate every second of every day. Always up for a big adventure-I love planning trips almost as much the actual trip. But, what about those in-between times? I want that time to be special too. I am independent and appreciate a confident, self-assured, independent woman. Compassion, empathy, affection, generosity, wit, kindness and intelligence are essential. I want a partner whose fitness and health important to them. I want a long term relationship. I am not looking for hook-ups or casual flings. I want a committed, monogamous relationship.