Hi...I swore I'd never go online for a man! If it's fate, it'll happen I've always said, but hey, what the heck. I've seen a lot, done a lot and have learnt many hard lessons in my life. I feel I am at a point where I know who I am and what I want in my life. I don't believe in the fairytale and am not expecting to be swept off my feet. I would love to have someone in my life who truly hears me, who can still be an individual entity whilst in a relationship and has nothing to prove. I consider compassion, honesty and integrity the most important of character traits. I love quirky, individual people even though I consider myself relatively conservative in many aspects, I'm also a bit of a paradox. I love to read and am an avid filmgoer just no chick flicks or romcoms please! I love keeping fit and active and am a fitness instructor and personal trainer. I also enjoy staying at home in my own little world with my 12 year old daughter who is the love of my life. I love to travel and have a great sense of adventure. I am an optimist and choose to live in the light and the world of endless possibilities! I would love to share my life and experience the world with a like minded human being. I'm a fun, caring passionate person. My family and close friends mean the world to me and I would do almost anything for them. I love seeing and making people laugh, having fun and plenty of excitement. I love the outdoors and would rather have a bbq or a roast meal cooked on an open fire instead of eating out at a restaurant, but I do enjoy going to pubs or clubs for a T-bone steak. I'm a Ford girl and love watching Bathurst when they win. Mind you I'm not a sore loser, well maybe sometimes lol. My dream car is a v8 mustang but I drive a Ute ( Ford of course) lol. One day I might win tattslotto and own a mustang. My favourite football team is Collingwood but don't hold that against me lol. Im definitely not like the one eyed supporters. I love camping and fishing, my aim is one day to catch a metre Murray Cod from my kayak ( I've only been practising for 53years :) I'm easy going and will try almost anything. I enjoy the farming life styles, and I've lived, worked and managed 2 piggeries and worked on a dairy farm. I love all animals and I've had many pets, from snakes , rats and frogs to horses dogs and cats. Currently working in aged care. I have a few tattoos, they are covered most of the time, but if you don't like tattoos don't wink .I am looking for a permanent relationship but I'm not in a hurry. Thanks for reading, if you wink me and I wink back can we please chat. I don't understand why if I wink you back you don't chat. I'm really not that scary.