I await the imminent arrival of a smart, sharp, kind man with emotional & intellectual depth. None other need attend. He is: -someone who seeks and will recognize (without fear) the immediate ease of a "right" connection. -someone who views occasional silence as an oasis rather than a desert. -someone who thinks that dancing with me in the kitchen, between stirrings, is a superlative way to spend an evening. - the ONE who lifts his head as I move.....among the mulude. "Among the men and women the mulude I perceive one picking me out by secret and divine signs, Acknowledging none else, not parent, wife, husband, brother, child, any nearer than I am. Some are baffled, but that one is not - that one knows me. Ah, lover and perfect equal! I meant that you should discover me so, by my faint indirections; And I, when I meet you, mean to discover you by the like in you." - Walt Whitman