would describe myself as a bit of a chameleon, forever changing and growing with my emotions and my family. I love life and making friends and want to experience everything that it has to offer and the joy that it brings. I have an adventurist spirit and love to travel, spend time with friends, cook, shopping, gardening and just being. I have been single for awhile now but feel that I am much more independent then when I first divorced were I needed to grow and really find my feet in the world as a woman and single mother. I am really looking for a guy who is also in a similar place emotionally, is an established divorcee who has had a few years on his own to figure out what life really means to him and what he wants, rather than guys who are separated and are just playing the field.