im quiet when i have to be as i spend much of my time volenteering in a nurseing home and a pet shelter. i beleave laugfing lifs the spirit as music. a universal language.it brigs people together. i dont beleave in soul mates. to love someone and them you depends on how much time your willing to put into the person you love. and its never 50-50. somedays you will give more. and other times your mate will give more.to love someone and them you is the most beautiful thing to be given us. and there are many types of love. but to truely be in love with one person , is your most wonderful gift in life. i have only been in love once. and will be happy to find love once more in my life. im a very old fashon woman, with ms and many types of love to share. my best friends are my pets right now. they love me for me. and this is the love i seek. i work very hard to stay in shape, i have to as i have a very bad back. so keeping in shape is very important. this is also what i look for in a new person in my life. i love the outdoors it brings out the best in me. cooking. youll never find ragoo in my kitchen. love boating walking, baseball,and fishing.ill even bate my own hook. as for what im looking for right now. would be someone to be a friend,and date as people did many years ago.i dont beleave in love at first sight. but when see something that gives us that funny little feeling and a twinkle in our eye, then the work begins.but it should be as easy as breathing. i know as i had this but once in my life, and when you have it its all you would settle for again.as for now its me and my little family....niki