Hi...I live in Escondido, San Diego County California and I am moving to Colima, Mexico to semi retire, and keep a residence in the US and Mexico. Would love to find an adventurer like me. I hope to keep working in Mexico. I have already been offered jobs in Mexico or I can start my own business. Yes, I will have a pension but I plain just like to keep busy. I really enjoy people, animals, hiking, horsebackriding, reading, gardening, and most of all learning new things. I believe in living a life following the Word. I need openness and honesty and prefer the truth even if its painful. I am very grateful for all the blessings I receive in life and if God gives me the gift of loving a good man then I will be truely blessed. I'm putting in this update May 27, 2021. Please would the very young men STOP reaching out? My email is being flooded. It takes way too much time to sort out all the younger men. Yes, I contacted Mingle and asked them to make sure to restrict the algorithm. ( I'm a computer tech) I work at a college and men much younger than me are always trying to pick up on me. I ceased being flattered by such attempts a long time ago. Dont get me wrong, I do not have any prejudices towards a younger man. I'm a YOUNG 63 and I have no problem with men up to 15 years younger. I was married to a man 20 years YOUNGER than me, divorced. Yes you can ask why, I have documentation as proof. I was married to a man 28 years OLDER than me, widowed. What do I appreciate? A MAN'S MAN. A man who is intelligent and can carry a conversation and communicate to create plans, work on projects, solve issues. A man who is reasonable and logical who doesnt care for hysteria, drama queens and isnt a bully. It would be a bonus if he had a large extended family. Some family members will always be crazy so My Man wouldn't need to hide them. A man who does the job RIGHT from the start. A man who is ETHICAL, PRINCIPLED and stands up for what's RIGHT. A man who holds himself and others accountable. A man who physically takes care of himself, generally eats right, takes care of his teeth and isnt addicted to substances. A man who can shoot better than me would be nice( I was rated Sharpshooter at age 13) A man who can ride a horse or at least isn't afraid of them is nice. A man who can literally bring home the meat, I like hunters. A man who can handle himself physically in an altercation is very high on the priority list. I admire a man who understands you have a responsibility to LEAD in your job, your family and the community. I'm not a needy person so I'm not into jealousy prone people. That doesnt mean I'm into sharing outside the relationship. If My Man wants out, all he has to say is let's start the process of going our own way. Simple, clean. There's no need to cheat because if neither of us LIE we KNOW when we are looking to move on. So just call it quits, call it like a straight shooter and then no one cheats and no one gets unnecessarily humiliated. The DEALBREAKERS? No matter what NEVER lie to me. HONOR your agreements. All of life we are constantly making contractual agreements. Call me old fashioned, pragmatic, legalistic,whatever. Just do not lie. I will always tell you where I'm at and I expect the same. I think telling LIES is like STEALING because if I dont keep My Man informed how is he supposed to be able to make accurate decisions for his own well being? Vs a versa. If a person never lies, then 99% of the time there is no issues.