Aren't smiles, laughter, and a positive attitude amazing? They are contagious. I'm trying to develop that side, though admittedly I lean toward the intellectual and serious side more of the time. I am fun loving however, and I seek out those types of people. I'll take a warm smile and a fun loving spirit over "hot" any day of the week. Of course it's great to find charm in an attractive, intelligent woman am attracted to calm, self assured women. hopefully i meet my better half here. say hi 🤩