To save us both time. If your primal needs are your priority or high on your must haves....or...if you are dirt poor or up to your ears in debt, please do not contact me. If I have contacted you, ignore me. If you can get beyond that, then.... Taking that risk to find a new companion will lead to new adventures. I am not necessarily looking to remarry. I offer a warm, caring, serious and laughing personality. I seek a sensible, mature, fiscally responsible, well balanced (open to interpretation) man to care about. I consider myself middle cl in surroundings and finances and I speak the proper English that goes with it. I try to be Green and economical, tend toward conservative views but more independent as I champion women's issues. I wish to spend the rest of my life in a northern state. I sang barbershop and loved it and I sing in the church choir with God in my life (not a bible thumper). Hope he has a spot in his heart, too. Christmas is a joyous time for family. I am intelligent and enjoy quality conversations. I also have an inner child that likes to come out and play! Come with me and explore England's crop circles; sleep in a "haunted" structure; whale watch off the Cape; check out lighthouses; cruise and rail Alaska and B.C, white water raft; tundra buggy to see polar bears; drift atop a rain forest sighting jungle creatures; go deep sea fishing; see how the Australians live. I play cards, computer games, visit cider mills and Shipshawana, and garden. I do the mundane womanly crafts, collect old TV series DVDs and am a TV news junkie. The deer photo I took at my beloved Yellowstone Nat'l Park which I visit as often as I can. We all have history/baggage by now - If you are not wound too tight or a loose cannon, then come set with me. I am set in some ways as well I should be by now. Thank you for reading my profile. The photos are a few years old and I have gained weight since then. I wish you love