I am very selfless, incredibly loving, I have a sharp wit and hate shopping!!! Yes I know, that is unusual, especially for a woman. I am honest and I believe that "baggage" is what makes us who we are. The trick is to take the positive out of your baggage and move on. I love painting, true crime, movies, winter (yes winter). I love my kids, I love my cats and most importantly, I love who I am, what I have overcome and what I have achieved. Oh and I snore (so I am told whahah). I am not desperate and am in no rush. Sometimes beauty takes time, like when I put my make up on :-). Honesty, stability and respect are incredibly important to me. If you have those 3 qualities, you are already successful in life. Clean cut, well educated and well spoken, taller than me, a homely guy that is family orientated, that's honest (I have spidy senses that have not let me down as yet), thoughtful, that shows respect and wants respect in return. Someone who has a brilliant sense of humour and can keep up with my quirky sense of humour. Some-one who will be proud to love me and smile when I walked through the door. Some one who loves being affectionate. Someone who wants to share his secrets and thoughts. Someone who believes that communication is key in any relationship. Some-one who will protect me and make me feel safe in his arms. Other than the long list above (the irony)...... Gosh...just be you!!! And in saying that, someone who is macho will not impress me. I can't tell you who you should be, I can only tell you what makes me happy. I want to know the real YOU under the mask.