This may seem rude, but I want what I want. I am not a fan of friend requests and no matter how sincere you sound, unless we can pursue friendship on a realistic level, cyber-pretending isn't all that appealing. I won't say I'm looking for love, I will say I deserve it. I am a pansexual and date, monogamously, men and women. It's not important that we establish sexual chemistry but to continue dating we must have it. My turn ons are quick wit, nice dressers, chivalry, culture and loyalty. My turn offs are body hair, braggarts, chauvinism, egotists, and liars. **YES, I DO DATE WHITE MEN** i shoot a 4 handicap in 8 ball, i dance like a video girl, I love to cook, can drive a stick, and change my own spark plugs. I am independent but I'd love a real romantic to come and take care of me like a fairytale prince. *I ONLY PRACTICE SAFE SEX** To get to be that person you only have to think with your heart, speak with your head, have something relevant to add to my life and not be selfish or a user.