Hi...I'm James, A single father of my 6 year old son also James Jr. I have a past but nothing creepy I promise, I've had A pretty hard life and it has made me a better person! When my son was born in 2015 my life had forever changed. I moved from my home town Troy in the albany area out to Canton NY....best decision I ever made! It has been me and my son since 2017 and as much as I have enjoyed working on getting my life together It has been A lonely journey. Anyways I am looking to find someone to get to know and see were things go. I'm in no rush cause I want this to be my forever as I now Have my son to think of also. I don't want another mother figure breaking his heart. There is no drama between me and her she lives about 7 to 8 hours away right now and never comes around. I am in recovery so I don't drink but If you do as long as its in moderation and on occasion I am ok, I just can't be with a daily drinker. I am in the process of quitting smoking and I was doing great till my only sibling and best friend passed away two days after Christmas. My brother was a GREAT guy and I miss him so much every day. Okay enough of this....if you have made it this far you are interested and I would love to hear from you in a message as I have not made up my mind if I want to upgrade on here. Please have a picture or send one in your message. One more thing, I have A big heart....I'm worth getting to know!