i am a very loving, caring, and giving lady with a sense of humor and have worked hard all my life and still do. i am a people person who also loves animals and children. God and family are my top priority and i live by the golden rule. have been through much hardship and heartache, but have a great faith that has carried me through. am sweet, honest, romantic, easy going, trustworthy, faithful, understanding, compionate, and very sincere. i've had relationships in the past with the wrong kind of men who have taken advantage of my kind heart and have taken me for granted. i deserve respect and to be treated right, for i give 110 per cent in everything i do. i am very touchy-feely, i enjoy doting on my man, expresing my feelings. am romantic, thoughtful and considerate and expect the same back. i deserve to be happy again and am ready to share my life with the right guy. life is too short to not live to the fullest and i want my life back, i'm very tired of being alone. all i've met on these sites for 3 yrs. are liars, cheaters, phony, macho, self-centered, cold-hearted, superficial, concieted jerks looking for barbie dolls. they are very shallow and think it's all about looks. while looks are nice, it's what's on the inside that attracts me, it's the heart i'm interested in. i am just an average woman , but i've never had any complaints as far as looks go, but i'm not 18 anymore, have never been a blond, and am no glamour girl and don't care to be. i'm very down to earth and know what's important in life. i'm happy with my beliefs and who i am, i've never hurt anyone in my life and am non-judgemental and non-predjudiced. am basically looking for a male version of myself as far as qualities go. i am a one-man woman trying to find a one-woman man, the kind who knows what matters in life and knows the meaning of what a real relationship and commitment are. just want to share the second half of my life with that special someone i can trust and will adore me as much as i adore him. please help get me off of this site, lol! seriously though! one other thing, please, no one under 55 contact me, i am disgusted by the amount of young males 18-30 who send me messages on a weekly basis....i do not want a boy, i have sons who are 35 and 28, my age preference is 55-62 as i have lived and experienced life and want someone the same, and am a lady, not a cougar...