I’m open to finding a real reason to stay in the Cebu One that leads to a meaningful, long-term relationship. If you’re a scammer, don’t waste your time. I won’t waste mine. Seeking I’m a retired American currently living in Ecuador, and I’ll be in the *** for several months starting in April. I’m looking to build a genuine connection with an adult woman who values loyalty, respect, and commitment. I’m not interested in casual arrangements or transactional relationships—I’m here for something real. Let me be very clear: I am not a sugar daddy, sponsor, or ATM. I don’t rescue people financially. I am financially stable, responsible, and generous within a serious relationship—but I expect my partner to have common sense, self-respect, and personal responsibility. I’m drawn to a woman who is feminine, respectful, and comfortable allowing a man to take the lead in a relationship. By “submissive,” I mean cooperative, trusting, and supportive—not passive, weak, or accepting of abuse. Mutual respect is non-negotiable. I value open communication, and while I’m comfortable making most day-to-day decisions, major life decisions are always discussed together. I also strongly value modesty, self-discipline, and traditional morals. I prefer a woman who has chosen to remain ***ually pure and values intimacy as something meaningful and reserved for a committed relationship. This preference is about values, not control or judgment. I’m well-traveled, grounded, and intelligent. I have no interest in playing the role of a “knight in shining armor” for someone looking to be saved. That said, when I commit, I show up fully—with consistency, protection, respect, and care, as any serious man should. I admire Asian values deeply—family, faith, respect, and loyalty. I enjoy the outdoors and feel most at peace fishing, swimming, hiking, or grilling by the sea. I’m also a man of faith and enjoy attending church. If you’re looking for a sincere partnership with a stable, experienced man who knows what he wants and treats his woman well, we may be a good match. If you’re here mainly for money or financial support for extended obligations, we’re not. Honesty and clarity matter to me. If this resonates with you, I’d be glad to talk.