I don't want to play STUPID games, only serious persons need to apply. CURRENT PHOTO IS A MUST. No senior prom pictures from the 70's or 80's. No photo, no response. Also, if there is "no answer" on some of the questions that mingle asks you, I will NOT respond. Is there something to hide? Widowed after 28 years if marriage and looking to start a new chapter in my life, and looking for a possible marrige. Looking for a man who DOES NOT SMOKE OR DRINK. If you do either of the previous things don't waste your time writing me because it won't work out. Family are all allergic to the smell of cigs and smoke, and won't go out with someone who might get drunk and crash. He must be a 1 woman man, honest and true to his word,(NO LIARS), want to get to know a GODly woman. (Anyone?) anyone like that checking out this site? A handsome man would also be nice. We need to start as friends first, you have to be friends before anything else can develop. Take time to get to know one another, hope you live close enough and job doesn't keep you so busy that it prevents us from spending time together. Time is a precious thing that a couple really needs. I want someone who can't stand his time away from me, and me from him, can't wait until we see each other again. Holding hands in public, even a kiss and a hug here and there. Any true romantics left? I don't know how to dance, wouldn't know where to begin, am willing to learn as long as it is a private lesson and not in a bar or in public. I also don't drink so I won't be going to a bar to show off my new moves. I'm not into one night stands. I don't give out my phone number due to a bad result from doing that. I have a very big and tender heart, am looking for the right person to give mine to. Don't want to have it broken by Don Juan just wanting to play games and leave. I really am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. Would be willing to sell out and move if I had to just to be with him. Men standing in front of flowery wall paper or holding the catch of the day, keep on looking at other profiles. I am not opposed to fishing at all, I just think a man should put a little more thought into his personal profile picture than showing off his prize fish. Surely if they took a picture of you with a fish, they can take a good one of you without a fish. Also have to include that I won't date anyone who smokes or drinks. Oh and one more thing, I really think I need to live on a tropical island, love the sun, sand, and the warm breeze off of the ocean water. Take me away. (of course that is just a dream, I hate cold weather). I hope you don't think my profile is harsh or rude, I am being totally up front on how I feel and am looking for my match. I hope to get off of this site soon as I hope to find the special one for me. Shoot me a line or 2 telling me about yourself and let's see if there are any similarities.