I am afraid of commitment. I would like to be friends and see how things develop. I love my independence. I love a woman in denims and takes pride in her personal appearance. I think opposites attract. I am a typical shallow male who is influenced by looks. "Man looks on the outside" lol!!! You must feel free to be you and likewise the same applies to me. At my age I think everything relates to how we compromise for each other. Only bear in mind that my work is my top priority. Guess I am a workaholic and lonely. I realise the two don't mix if I want company and there is my personal problem!!! Can you handle a complex man???