Older, recently widowed, not in great shape, average in every way, sarcastic, witty, have 2 adult children, 1 is still at home. Not looking for my next wife, or to fall madly in love, some sort of connection would be nice. Dating is very bizarre to me? I am a touchy feely type of person, like to be intimate, in all ways, yet After being married for 28 years I am not quite ready for something permanent. Not sure if that makes any sense? Not searching for out of State, or out of my area.