Aloha, Nothing will ever be more important to me than God or my kids - so if you feel the need to compete with either, don't bother contacting me. I have zero tolerance for BS, so please do not "Message" me or "Like" me if you are not willing to FaceTime so we can verify each other's identity and intent... The secret to life isn't getting what you want - it's being happy with it once you get "it" - be happy with what you have... Until you are, you aren't going to be good partner for anyone... I have blocked anyone younger than 41 or more than 100 miles from me from being able to email me - so if you have read this far then you will know not to contact me if you fall in those two categories. The first is because you have to be at least 18 years older than my oldest kid and the second is because I'm here for an actual person to person (not a long distance or virtual) relationship...