FYI - MY PROFILE IS LONG!!! NOTICE: NOT Looking for a FWB ME in a Nut Shell: I watch NASCAR on sunday (football got boring - ex Dallas and Radiers fan), CW/Ballroom Dancing (you dont have to dance, learning is optional, know that i do this instead of the gym, much more fun), NOT A BARBIE. I try to laugh at life..I have been thru HELL and wake up every morning knowing that you can't change yesterday you just have to keep going in life. I am honest, open, and very true...for those that have taken to the time to share with me they have been allowed to see that deeper inner side of the woman I am. I am a pionate and intimate woman who has personality and independence but can be sexy, wild, and spontaneous at times. Very outgoing OPEN minded woman. I shock ppl on how OPEN my mind is. I love to sing, dance, swim and snuggle. I love ROSES, SILK n SATIN, TDH N Cowboys. If you can't find me here...check the ocean...or Hawaii tho I hate the flight over. I am VERY easy to get along with as I luv new things. I luv to give either snuggling while watching a movie...or that surprise little something just cuz I saw it and it made me think of you. Someone that you can tell your dreams, fears and hopes to. I'll help you in any way I can with those. Someone to be there when you need them and not look and run. Had a few ALMOST lovers...they moved on and tattooed my heart. Rascal Flatts says it best...What hurts the most...Brooks & Dunn also says...We'll burn that bridge..are you that man? (I like all kinds of music, Country just helps say it best). I like to meet people I have met from the internet. I have met some really wonderful people & some real losers, so I give everyone a chance to show me they aren’t the latter there. MY BAGGAGE (I like honesty and think it needs to start from HERE) Kids...3 (ages 11-16) This means they have a father (only one) that is part of their life and means I have to deal with him about their lives. Being recently separated (11/06) there are some details that are still being worked out. NO I don't want him back; it was me who brought up the separation. I have had a long term relationship since then he was just a compulsive liar. What I want in get in return: A guy that understands honesty isn't only when he doesn't want to get caught. He also knows that dating now doesn't always mean dating later and might even mean more later. He does have to accept me as I am...I won't change and I can't change my past. I don't expect him to change his past either. Currently set at DATING as I would love a long term, but want to date to find that guy that fits what I am looking for to go LONG TERM with. If you are looking for children...I have them.. you can too...but can't give you more...unless you are into adopting. A friend asked me what i really want from here: What I want...is that guy that cant wait so see me...who thinks about me during the day to send me a text message just because...the one i can call in the middle of the afternoon cuz my day has sucked and just hearing his voice puts me at ease... I would love to have him as the man that rolls over and puts his arm around me just cuz i am laying next to him and he wants to feel me close to him as he goes back to sleep. GOOD KISSER - Be able to handle long make out sessions...as in like kiss for hours with a man that can kiss. Intimate pion, caressing, and tenderness Like to snuggle all night long..not just 5 min after sex..been there and done that Snuggling on the couch, at the movies, in the park on a blanket Not afraid of PDA...hand holding, kisses now and then...huggs Enjoys dancing and slow dancing and not on my feet Good at being there as well as being appreciated unconditionally...****** OPTIONAL TDH Camping, fishing and knows how to rub two sticks together Rollerskater Has Tattoos Likes to Karaoke Can speak Italian Into religion but it doesn’t consume you I KNOW THERE IS NO 100% - I AM WILLING TO TAKE 85% STILL READING??? DISCLAIMER If I viewed your profile and didn't send a message...it maybe that you have OPEN/UNDECIDED for wanting children and NO previous kids. This is something I can no longer give and even if I thought you were a PERFECT match, I would never deny any man of this. If you write me and I don't respond, I might be busy. If I tell you I have reviewed your profile and I don't think were a match, don't get offended, and just realize I know what I want. I like to chat...and truly from CA. Well I hope that is enough...chat at you later...CA Girl