The man of my dreams is an honest and clear-hearted man, who has already healed his wounds. He is calm and fun and at the same time very ***y. Professional, ***ial, independent, with freedom to travel. He is super intelligent and a good conversationalist, he loves to exercise and prepare super healthy food. Financially prosperous and generous in every way. With a lot of energy, joy, positivity. A trustworthy person. Ready for something that has actual weight to it. Not warming up to the idea already there. That's probably the most important thing and everything else builds from it. Has taken care of himself not obsessively, just enough that his body and his life feel intentional. Doesn't have to be perfect, just present in how he lives. Warm with the people he loves. Makes the people around him feel like they matter not because he's trying to, just because that's who he is. Ready to meet, to decide, to move forward. Two adults who know what they want don't need months to figure out if there's something real between them.