[SIGH...] I really REALLY dislike having my hand forced but it seems that plain speaking is the only thing that will get through to some people. First of all, I have two serious phobias: Arachnophobia & pogonophobia and I refuse to deal with people who have either of those things. If you collect spiders or have a beard, then please realize that no amount of flattery or honeyed words will EVER change my mind! Secondly, if you can not take the time to fill out your profile which is there to enable people to learn more about the other so that a decision can be made as to suitability or not, then pass me by because I do read and learn and hate wasting time. To the people who are seriously looking for a mate, please know that I am an adventurous and engaging woman who is comfortable in almost any setting that does not include spiders and beards! Although I like children, I'd rather not have to share a father/man. Laughing is something that I do every day, as often as possible so a man of humor AND a yummy appeal who thinks that I walk on air will be a trifecta! LOL