You are not going to find the 'perfect' person to love, not going to find someone with 'all' the qualities you've been looking for. That's not the way it works. The trick is to find someone who understands you. Who's willing to learn & adapt to your flaws. Someone who's willing to accept your vices. Who's willing to look past everything & just love you for who you are. That's what it's all about. Finding someone who's willing to accept you, no matter how ****ed up your past is. Someone who's wil Never judge a person get to know him or her before ghosting them.