When they claim to have changed and act nice should we trust them? Or should we just move on.

thanks!

I am a single mom to be and also am blessed with two younger boys with me, hoping to find someone who has room to love and be loved and not looking for a one night stand, someone gentle and caring I can build dreams with
and I want to encourage all you out there, ladies with kids, I know what it is like to either have people respect you for trying or condemn yuo and think you are just easy
but there is nothing EASY about being abandoned or choosing to walk away from a bad relationship
every step is hard, but needed and we all need to support eachother
if anyone is alone it is as easy as a smile or encouraging word, wherever we are
the answer is not finding someone unless that person is at peace with life and can give and receive happiness

he said and said he loved me and we would soon be married, were already married really
I knew he would have gotten legal papers
then his mom died and in the unrest and unhappiness and tears and relatives that once loved eachother
now fighting over the leftovers like a turkey carcass
so much grief
he was driving and I saw a truck almost hit us and said: "WATCH OUT FOR THE TRUCK!" And all his kindness turned to hate
just like his bitterness to his ex wife
you think you know it all! And other words tearing apart at the seams all of the hopes and dreams
I did not break away from my ex's anger to embrace his problems
though wanted to embrace him
sp let's make a baby he says
and now ignores the phone
I am alone
with my hopes and dreams
he knows I will never push him for child support, have always taken care of my kids
and if he does not want me
why bring a bay into that hell
too
so watch out my lovely sisters if anyone holds you so close
and nuzzles your ears and kneck and whispers of hopes and dreams and says
let's make a baby together, should we?
think well and be prepared to love that child
and love yourself too
always
and if you walk away from pain
may every step of the journey be towards HAPPINESS again!
Blessings!

thank you dear

There was a hole in my heart
where your love used to be
before you got so angry with me
and though I have tried ot call and pick up the broken pieces
you would not say hello or try to
it felt like a hole in my soul
but I guess that is normal for a relationship breaking
and we both now must go on
and where there was pain
now for both of us and to our futures, let there be joy

and she letherself dream happydreams
believing
he is not there by the bassinet or the playpen
yet the arms around her small are her world and someone
will love them and mean it and be
the piece that fits to help make
a happy family
she dreams that someday
for it would be wonderful to have a safe and loving husband
like tarzan and jane
he would not have hurt her for the world
I am not Cheeta nor do I have a Cheeta smile
but I will be fine
and not be swallowed by the crocodiles
my tarzan will sit by me and watch them smim by
and be lovingly
at peace

Don't let anything get you down
you don't need to keep your feet on the ground
when you want to sing and not wear a frown
leave your troubles far away
and rise above them
flying on wings
of angels

wow, someone's going top have a good garden

I think if the man insists the woman does not owrk or earn any money he should support and chersih and provide for her so that she does not need the job, so yes, he should shere what he has with her happily and she shoudl not be greedy, but the two should fit together and love eachother, being kind to eachother which is worth much more than money

amen. praying

be humble and strong and loving maybe write her a poem?

take the time to get to know her, ask her about things and herself and if you can, sned her a flower and tell her how special she is and if she likes you good, if not, save your love for another

wish I had someone to hug

good one

I know some sweet folk go tmarried after two weeks online dating and are very happy still

If you go back in time, but do not do anything but watch it is ok I think, wish I could go back and never marry my ex!

true, I mean marriage to someone who tells you look I will divorce you as soon as I get to the USa, is like demeaning and cheap to me.

Chicken and a Buscuit snack crackers and a Monster Citrus flavor, so if we are what we eat does that make me a monster chicken who's gone crackers?

I DON't NEED YOU ANYMORE and MY BABY'S A TRain... gives every tramp a ride.... by Rosanna Cash, left the first one part of it on his answering machine after he'd been bothering me for money again