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Sun 04/05/09 11:46 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 11:47 AM
In my opinion some ladies look for a guy to resemble their father! in some strange way its kind of true in some cases.

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Sun 04/05/09 11:40 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 11:42 AM
Keep an open line of communication. Be honest and sincere. And don't listen to me because im single. lolsmokin

also define happy?

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Sun 04/05/09 11:25 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 11:31 AM


HI smile2

You need new pix. The only two you have are not flattering because you are not smiling. The second one makes you look constipated or like you smelled something really bad. SMILE! How will you attract a happy person if you aren't happy? Mayabe you don't want 'happy' -- in that case disregard! winking

You say that you are too busy too look for someone of quality. How will you have time to date? Are you only interested in an online relationship that requires no commitment or effort? If so, yo may want to include that in your profile and warn girls that you won't make time for them.

Add something about the type of girl you are trying to attract: tomboy, prissy, athletic, academic, etc. What do you like to do on dates?

Your last sentence " .... just ask ...." is one of the worst thing people include in their profiles; it's lazy, perfuntory, and ambiguous.

Your profile is how you market yourself. If you don't care to make an effort, why would anyone care to view it or contact you?

Enjoy your time on Mingle! flowerforyou




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Sun 04/05/09 11:17 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 11:20 AM

HI smile2

You need new pix. The only two you have are not flattering because you are not smiling. The second one makes you look constipated or like you smelled something really bad. SMILE! How will you attract a happy person if you aren't happy? Mayabe you don't want 'happy' -- in that case disregard! winking

You say that you are too busy too look for someone of quality. How will you have time to date? Are you only interested in an online relationship that requires no commitment or effort? If so, yo may want to include that in your profile and warn girls that you won't make time for them.

Add something about the type of girl you are trying to attract: tomboy, prissy, athletic, academic, etc. What do you like to do on dates?

Your last sentence " .... just ask ...." is one of the worst thing people include in their profiles; it's lazy, perfuntory, and ambiguous.

Your profile is how you market yourself. If you don't care to make an effort, why would anyone care to view it or contact you?

Enjoy your time on Mingle! flowerforyou


I love your opinion thanks! Sometimes it takes other people to point out things that you don't see. If you want to know more.. don't be shy and contact me! :) <--- and that part of my profile in other words I got lazy and let you ladies do the work or assume I will add to that tho.

Thanks MelodyGirl I will smile next time! biggrin


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Sun 04/05/09 11:05 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 11:06 AM
I also see the lack of control and disipline when people eat.. People are overweight in America some because of health issues it makes it hard for them to lose weight. People need disipline and to make wise choices when eating. Im sure you and me dont have that problem right?? we are both sagacious eaters I assume by our intellect.

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Sun 04/05/09 11:00 AM
Do you have the time? [Gives the time] No, the time to write down my number?


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Sun 04/05/09 10:56 AM

Yes well there seems to be an abundance of people with short attention spans in the world right?

Read more than a dozen lines? Too hard...

Feed me sound bites instead.

Think...out of the question...

I can't have an original thought. Anyway why should I? Plenty of pundits are around to feed my fears and tell me what to think.

Act...

Why when I can ignore the world, blame others and suck down inane content like American Idol or NASCAR.

*cough*

And people wonder why this country is on a fast slide into the crapper.





was that a poem response?

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Sun 04/05/09 10:49 AM
All guys replied?? wow lol I would strongly encurage Ladies to do so also..

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Sun 04/05/09 10:29 AM

This story has it all. Police corruption, theft, graft, intimidation, abuse of process and more all in the name of the "war on drugs"

With a statute so vague "it's illegal to sell containers if the store owner "knows or should reasonably know" that the buyer intends to use them to package drugs." virtually any establishment that sells things from tin foil to daily medicine organizers could be shaken down by the police. Are store owners going to be required to look at a patron and determine based on appearance alone whether that patron may use a legal product illegally? If so, doesn't that open up store owners to litigation from patrons denied service based solely on appearance?

Protect and serve indeed?!? Putting these vaguely defined powers in the hands of law enforcement let alone obviously corrupt law enforcement is obscene.

I hope these police all lose their jobs to start with.

Oh and if you are from Philly, if you are a cop or even if you are from Pennsylvania don't be offended. Do something! Demand justice.

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Video sharpens focus on raid
Store owner's hidden back-up shows cops snipping security-camera wires

By WENDY RUDERMAN & BARBARA LAKER
Philadelphia Daily News

rudermw@phillynews.com 215-854-2860

THE NARCOTICS officers knew they were being watched on video surveillance moments after they entered the bodega.

Officer Jeffrey Cujdik told store owner Jose Duran that police were in search of tiny ziplock bags often used to package drugs. But, during the September 2007 raid, Cujdik and fellow squad members seemed much more interested in finding every video camera in the West Oak Lane store.

"I got like seven or eight eyes," shouted Officer Thomas Tolstoy, referring to the cameras, as the officers glanced up. "There's one outside. There is one, two, three, four in the aisles, and there's one right here somewhere."

For the next several minutes, Tolstoy and other Narcotics Field Unit officers systematically cut wires to cameras until those "eyes" could no longer see.

Then, after the officers arrested Duran and took him to jail, nearly $10,000 in cash and cartons of Marlboros and Newports were missing from the locked, unattended store, Duran alleges. The officers guzzled sodas and scarfed down fresh turkey hoagies, Little Debbie fudge brownies and Cheez-Its, he said.

What the officers didn't count on was that Duran's high-tech video system had a hidden backup hard-drive. The backup downloaded the footage to his private Web site before the wires were cut.

Although Duran has no video of the alleged looting, he has a 10-minute video that shows the officers using a bread knife, pliers, milk crates and their hands to disable the surveillance system.

The officers didn't "touch the money with the system looking," said Duran, who came to the United States from the Dominican Republic 15 years ago and has no prior criminal record in Philadelphia.

They touched "the money after they destroy all the system," he said.

Duran, 28, of South Jersey, a technology buff, said that he was upset that the officers had wrecked his $15,000 surveillance system.

"That was his main complaint - that they destroyed his surveillance system," Duran's attorney, Sonte Anthony Reavis, said last week. "I believed him."

Duran's video bolsters allegations by eight other Philadelphia store owners who said that Cujdik and other officers destroyed or cut wires to surveillance cameras. Those store owners also said that after the wires were cut, cigarettes, batteries, cell phones, food and drinks were taken. The Daily News reported the allegations March 20.

The officers also confiscated cash from the stores - a routine practice in drug raids - but didn't record the full amount on police property receipts, the shop owners allege.

Six more store owners or workers, including Duran, contacted the Daily News after the March 20 article. All six described similar ordeals involving destroyed cameras and missing money and merchandise.

The officers arrested the stores' owners for selling tiny bags, which police consider drug paraphernalia. Under state law, it's illegal to sell containers if the store owner "knows or should reasonably know" that the buyer intends to use them to package drugs.

Duran alleged that the officers seized nearly $10,000 in the raid on his store, on 20th Street near 73rd Avenue. He said that the money included a week's worth of profits and cash to pay his three employees.

The property receipt filed by the officers said that they had confiscated only $785.

Told of the new allegations, George Bochetto, an attorney representing Cujdik, said that he stood by his earlier response:

"Now that the Daily News has created a mass hysteria concerning the Philadelphia Narcotics Unit, it comes as no surprise that every defendant ever arrested will now proclaim their innocence and bark about being mistreated.

"Suffice it to say, there is a not a scintilla of truth to such convenient protestations."


Police Commissioner Charles Ramsey said that he's disturbed by the store owners' allegations.

"It's pretty serious and I want to get to the bottom of it," Ramsey said last week.

Cujdik is at the center of an expanding federal and local probe into allegations that he lied on search warrants to gain access to suspected drug homes and became too close with his informants.

Ramsey said that Duran's video now "needs to be made part of this larger investigation."

The video also calls into question the validity of the search warrant that enabled the officers to raid Duran's store.

In a search-warrant application, Officer Richard Cujdik - Jeffrey Cujdik's brother - wrote that he "observed" a confidential informant enter Duran's store to buy tiny ziplock bags at about 4:30 p.m. on Sept. 11, 2007.

The informant left the store two minutes later and handed two bags to Richard Cujdik, according to the search-warrant application.

Two-and-a-half hours later, at about 7 p.m., the Cujdik brothers and four other officers, including Tolstoy, Thomas Kuhn, Anthony Parrotti and squad supervisor Sgt. Joseph Bologna raided the store.

The Daily News watched the time-stamped Sept. 11 surveillance footage between 4 and 5 p.m.: Not a single customer asked for or bought a ziplock bag.

"At the time, I had no reason to question the validity of the warrant," said Reavis, Duran's attorney.

When told by the Daily News that no bags were sold during that time frame, Reavis expressed shock.

"That's manufacturing evidence," Reavis said. "If the basis for the search warrant is a lie, that's perjury. It's illegal. It's criminal on the officer's part."

Richard Cujdik also wrote in the search-warrant application that the same informant had bought ziplock bags from Duran twice before - on Sept. 5 and 6, 2007. Duran said he was unable to locate the footage from those days.

The Daily News attempted to contact each of the officers who took part in the raid. Except for Bochetto's response on behalf of Jeffrey Cujdik, none returned messages seeking comment.


The footage from the day of the raid is crystal-clear:

Duran is chatting on his cell phone in front of the cash register when the officers enter the store. With gun drawn, Tolstoy is in the lead. Most of the officers are wearing vests or shirts with the word "Police."

Tolstoy handcuffs Duran. The officers ask routine questions: Does Duran have a gun? Does anyone live on the second floor? Are there dogs in the basement?

Then Sgt. Bologna looks up and waves his finger toward the ceiling: "Whaddya got, cameras over there? . . . Where are they hooked up to?"

In fact, every officer seems fixated on the surveillance system.

"Where's the video cameras? The cassette for it?" Richard Cujdik asks.

"Does it record?" Jeffrey Cujdik quickly adds.

Officer Kuhn then steps up on a milk crate that he had placed underneath a ceiling camera and struggles to reach it. "I need to be f---ing taller," Kuhn mumbles as another officer laughs.

"You got a ladder in here, Cuz?" Kuhn asks Duran.

"Yo," Tolstoy calls out from behind the register. "Does this camera go home? Can you view this on your computer, too?"

"I can see [at], yeah, home, yeah," Duran replies.

"So your wife knows we're here, then?" Tolstoy asks.

"My wife? No. She not looking the computer right now," Duran says.

"Hey, Sarge . . . Come 'ere," Tolstoy shouts out.

Bologna ambles over to the front counter.

Jeffrey Cujdik leans in and whispers, "There's one in the back corner right there."


"It can be viewed at home," Tolstoy says.

As the others talk, Officer Parrotti reaches up to another camera in front of the register. He pulls the wire down and slices it with a bread knife taken from the store's deli.

"OK. We'll disconnect it," Bologna assures Tolstoy. "That's cool."

Meanwhile, Parrotti's hand covers the camera lens and he appears to yank the camera from the ceiling.

The screen goes black.

"They could watch what's happening at the store at your house?" Bologna asks.

The audio cuts out.

There is footage of Kuhn looking for a camera outside the store and of Richard Cujdik searching Duran's white van. In the audio portion of the video, Richard Cujdik asks Duran, "Is that your - whose white van is that?"

Then Richard Cujdik simply asks for the keys and heads outside. The search warrant for the store makes no mention of a van. The Daily News could not find a search warrant for the van in court records.

The officers arrested Duran on misdemeanor charges of possessing and selling drug paraphernalia, specifically tiny ziplock bags.



The next day, while Duran was in jail, his brother-in-law Anthony Garcia entered the store, which had been locked after the officers left.

The place was trashed, Garcia said. Goods had been knocked off shelves onto the floor. The oven and deep fryer were left on and the refrigerator door was left open, spoiling the food inside.

"It looked like they were having a party in there," he said. "There was a lot of money missing."

Garcia said that Duran's van was left unlocked with the keys in the center console.

The initial police report says that the officers "also recovered in the store . . . eight (8) overhead cameras." The officers, however, do not list the cameras on any property receipt or state why they took them, according to police documents.

During the raid, Jeffrey Cujdik told Duran that he was seizing the cameras and computer monitor "as evidence because you're selling drug paraphernalia. So we gotta get rid of it. . . . You got yourself on video selling drug paraphernalia."

Duran's cameras, however, were digital and contained no tape and, therefore, no evidence.

Commissioner Ramsey said that he couldn't think of any official reason for police officers to cut camera wires.

He said that the officers could confiscate surveillance equipment, including the cameras, if they believed that the footage provided evidence connected to the drug-paraphernalia case. But, Ramsey added, the officers must include the equipment on a property receipt and explain why they had confiscated the cameras.

"You wouldn't just cut it and take it, because that's somebody's private property," Ramsey said.

During the raid, Richard Cujdik told Duran that the ziplock bags were illegal. Duran tried to explain that he bought the store fully stocked and the bags were already inside.

"OK, it don't matter," Richard Cujdik told him. "You should know your business."

In February 2008, Municipal Court Judge James M. DeLeon sentenced Duran to nine months' probation after he pleaded "no contest" to the charges. He paid $5,000 in attorney's fees.

And Duran, who was renting the first floor that housed the store, lost his lease. The building owner said that Duran had to leave to prevent the city from taking the building in forfeiture, Duran said.

He now operates a grocery in Camden County, but remains angry about the raid.

"That's not fair, what they did to me," Duran said. "That's no way to treat me when they don't know me.

"You work 18 hours [a day] and they come in and do that?"


Wow this is a long message... for people who have a short attention spand this one is not for you lol :laughing:

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Sun 04/05/09 10:17 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 10:22 AM





should the person buying rat poison be charged with attempted murder of the person they have been fighting with

should the person with a fishing pole be charged with fishing without a license





Simple answer for those questions.. Use common sence! period.


exactly if someone is not driving they should not be charged with driving

common sense

keys in the ignition does no more a driver make than have rat poison make a murderer


This thread will not end until someone gets tired of typing so this is my last thread! Great topic tho it had people going. good luck going in circles people! biggrin

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Sun 04/05/09 10:06 AM



should the person buying rat poison be charged with attempted murder of the person they have been fighting with

should the person with a fishing pole be charged with fishing without a license





Simple answer for those questions.. Use common sence! period.

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Sun 04/05/09 10:04 AM

NO!


yes GO!!

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Sun 04/05/09 10:02 AM




if I am going out and going to drink...i have a ride set up before i leave the house.


That shows good judgment and common sence my friend! I like people that think before they act! :thumbsup:


there are times i don't drink when i go out....so if i drive and don't have anyone to pick me up...i don't drink. common sense. passing out in a car isn't an option for me either because there is no telling what could happen. plus i could wake up and think "i'm better now" then drive away and risk my life and others


and then and only then would you qualify for a driving infraction


Not according to the law my friend! I love this law yay!! :banana:

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Sun 04/05/09 10:00 AM
GO!

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Sun 04/05/09 09:57 AM

if I am going out and going to drink...i have a ride set up before i leave the house.


That shows good judgment and common sence my friend! I like people that think before they act! :thumbsup:

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Sun 04/05/09 09:51 AM




Just because it is a Law it does not mean it nesseceraly moral. But, if you can't handle your liquor enough to go to the back seat and sleep it off then he deserved that ticket. Ive seen too many drunk drivers take the lives of inocent people and that is not just!


point is he was not driving

dring under the influence is not the proper charge

and i bet there are a lot that say

"hell i will get a ticket if i sleep so i might as well drive"

how many have been killed because of the driving infraction when not driving

think about it







I get it that he was not driving but there is always that possibility that if he is drunk he will turn the car and and operate that vehicle. Like I stated before if he can't handle his liquor why does the public have to pay.


what has the public paid from this incident

they paid nothing until the police woke him up

where does the thought of intent stop

if you own a gun and fight with the neighbor should you lose your gun because you might shoot them

if you have beer in your car driving home should you get a dui stop because you might drink it

keep bending over the govt enjoys it



Its not so hard to obey this simple law. They are not asking you much just too keep your drunk I can't handle my liquor butt off the passangers seat. Its not like the government is asking you to cut off your foot. There are things in government that dont make any sense like telling people who can get married. Thats just not right there is a suppose to be a seperation between Church and State. But getting back to this miniscule topic about the size of my nut sack. I say keep your drunk of the passangers seat! theres always the possibility his I can't handle my liquor face will wake up and drive around like a moron!

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Sun 04/05/09 09:39 AM
Edited by Purelifeman on Sun 04/05/09 09:43 AM


Just because it is a Law it does not mean it nesseceraly moral. But, if you can't handle your liquor enough to go to the back seat and sleep it off then he deserved that ticket. Ive seen too many drunk drivers take the lives of inocent people and that is not just!


point is he was not driving

dring under the influence is not the proper charge

and i bet there are a lot that say

"hell i will get a ticket if i sleep so i might as well drive"

how many have been killed because of the driving infraction when not driving

think about it







I get it that he was not driving but there is always that possibility that if he is drunk he will turn the car and and operate that vehicle. Like I stated before if he can't handle his liquor why does the public have to pay.


That state ment you made "hell i will get a ticket if i sleep so i might as well drive" is very ilogical. The whole point is safety. The message is keep drunk people that cannot handle their liquor away from car keys!! have a friend drive you ask someone to call a cab.

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Sun 04/05/09 09:30 AM
Just because it is a Law it does not mean it nesseceraly moral. But, if you can't handle your liquor enough to go to the back seat and sleep it off then he deserved that ticket. Ive seen too many drunk drivers take the lives of inocent people and that is not just!

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Sun 04/05/09 12:00 AM
10!

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Sat 04/04/09 11:53 PM
Lets all sit in an empty room and sob over forums!! lol