man provides food for pregnant woman, besides the initial act of insemination.

he nurtures both through his work and his money.

if the son disrespects his mother it is she who has failed, and he should be raised by the father instead.

he should be called a Boy, and the Mother should be shamed and expelled from the family and shamed by society.

Yes, been there and done that aaaand...
Nope. always came behind the Kid and the Ex, that's why i kicked her to the curb.

bai using "Spellchack"

that is why i avoid the word "love" in all senses.
I prefer methaphors or actions.

and i advise you to do the same.

a woman that i am interested in dating - but HAVE NOT DATED YET
is making the following mistakes, and i am speaking for myself here.:

a) i am not interested in children. i am interested in meeting you.
you. Not the Kid, not your brother, not anyone else.

b) your children talk leads me to think you are looking for a father to your children. please read A)

c)we have never met, yet you are already putting responsability on my shoulders, trying to nail me down on this particular subject for the rest of my life. Nope. we can discuss children when we live together -- in five years.

d)i prefer not to come second to the Kid that you might already have with another Man.

e)that potential other man is still the daddy to your potential Kid, and he regularly pops up in your life, and his existance might get in tocuh with mine. I need to know as much about your Ex-dick than you need to know about my Ex-*****. absolutely Nothing that is.

and so on, and so forth.

X) last but not least: i like to keep all doors open. I do not wish to be nagged into having a Kid if i change my mind down the road.

i do not marry so ...
by definition all sex is before marriage.

and i think that they liked it so far...?

Took you damn long to figure out that looks can decieve!

what is it with the double exclamation marks ??
That is a feature i associate with wimmin !!
but you look like a Dude!!
...at least your photo does ??
maybe you are a fake too ??

NICE!

the marriage Deal. it is a word you did not concienciously choose, but is still a very good description.

before even thinking about it, YOU would need to sell that to me - that Deal.
What can you bring to the table, what can you contribute, what are you willing to contribute? for how long?

If you are out to Seal a DEAL, you are out to get an advantage off that Deal.

you, ma'am would be out of my life in zero seconds, flat.
There is the door.

so how likely is it to happen?
Zero percent.

so she is using guys.
to get what she wants


and you want to be that guy.

how about you stop listening to your ... ummm... Dick... and start running away from that manipulative person?
and once you are VERY far away, you take a break and turn the small head OFF
and the Big head ON.

vasectomy!

I would like to contradict this with
"there is no such thing as a free meal"

other than that, the source of your quote was an awesome man, and i would listen to his advice any day.

Men, DON'T have sex with her if you are not going to continue "dating" her afterwards.

...or else?!!
Pump and Dump Prohibited?
what if the experience was... horrible?
am i supposed to go on another date, spending 5 minutes explaining that i want to end it right there?


But previously you stated that simply texting me is okay.
so just tell the guy the truth (do it over text if you are afraid he will whine/cry/get angry)
I smell a double standard in here...

with or withour promises of comittment or money
with or without keeping any promises
casual or not casual

you just included prostitution(if it can lead to kids) in regular sex. [prmise of money]
so regular sex or prostitution(if it can lead to kids) are now in one group. Same thing.

so if i asked you if you
- were a Virgin and ever had unprotected sex,
then you have had regular sex,
- so that sex that you had was in the same group as prostitution.

Well...
there sure are a LOT of Beaches out there...?!!!
Potentially you included?!!

I think you will agree that we both do not like where this is going...
nopenopenope.

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I maintain my position:
when you Pay, as in agreeing on a price and no comittment and no kids, your ride is a prostitute.

Else, all women i have ever had(unprotected) are Beaches.
and i shall not allow your train of thought to define them as such.

thanks.

Not REGULAR sex.
this is about
WHORES.
Female Dogs!
Sex for money!
Sex for Food. Gold. Watches. Stone tools

... but then again, maybe all women have always been like that?!!!

Hold on a minute...!
O.o

Holy spirit!

And it is not a big surprise that you have no intetest investing time in those women or chats or relationships...


I can only advise you to be up-front.
if you want a more current photo than her photo that clearly dates from 1984, just ask for one.
If she refuses, drop it.
you are not insecure, why would you put up with an insecure woman?

SSSSShhhhh

just let nature run its course...

okay, so if i take you word for it, i might possibly, potentially think of the following reasons:

-they are not good
-or not honest

as you describe the picture situation, i would say the "honest" part is confirmed by what you see.

You see a current photo as courage? Then they must not have courage. Or not be Honest. maybe both even.

So the solution is this:
Ignore the photo.
suppose them to be dishonest and have no courage


and then , just like that, you will ask yourself "WTF am i doing here?!!"

BS.
The oldest profession in the world has got to do with food. The hunter/gatherer maybe.
Nobody can survive, raise children and spread the race over the globe by just f***ing around right from the start.

this makes all other points and questions irrelevant.

done.

You are not supposed to post PORN in here, goddammit...