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Fri 08/28/15 02:57 AM

For Pansytilly.



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Fri 08/28/15 02:52 AM


how can i fix my pictures..help please..i use photobucket..




hope you don't mind, fixed it by uploading to my album(temporarily) and redoing it....but I found out why it's not working. .I'll put a guide together tonight for people that use the photobucket app




Sir?
No need for this.
I don't think your partner will appreciate it.
It's okay.
I will try to post another picture.
In time, I will learn.
The guide will be a big help though.



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Thu 08/27/15 12:58 AM

Heaven must be there
Belinda Carlisle
Time after time
Cindy Laurpa I think that's how you spell it
Anything from ABBA
Songs from Dolly Parton

Yes I am a karaoke freak. Only with my family with a few beers. Lol we do it all the time with family gatherings. Lol

:banana: :banana:


:heart: :heart: I like your choices hahaha.. 'Time after Time'..we will take turnsbigsmile

Videoke:

Out of Reach - Gabrielle
Tattoo - Jordin Sparks
Dream Out Loud - Alana Lee
Zombie - Cranberries
Breathless -The Corrs
Don't Speak - No Doubt
Ironic - Alanis Morissette





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Thu 08/27/15 12:23 AM
Graduation (Friends Forever)"

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of that night in June
I didn't know much of love
But it came too soon
And there was me and you
And then we got real blue
Stay at home talking on the telephone
And we would get so excited and we'd get so scared
Laughing at ourselves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels

[1]
As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
Come whatever
We will still be
Friends Forever

So if we get the big jobs
And we make the big money
When we look back now
Will our jokes still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels

[Repeat 1]

La, la, la, la:
Yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la:
We will still be friends forever

Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there?
Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us around?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly

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Thu 08/27/15 12:17 AM



With my students at the Blue man show..rofl shades

Able to spot the blue man? surprised


Wow!:heart:
Very cool:thumbsup:

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Thu 08/27/15 12:15 AM
Still in honor of the Trust thread:)

We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.

-Walter Anderson

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Thu 08/27/15 12:05 AM
2nd Try:







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Wed 08/26/15 11:48 PM
Favorite - meaning you can watch it again and again and again..right?:smile:

Favorite Movies: August Rush, Rock Star (Mark Wahlberg), The Last Samurai, Apocalypto, The Transporter (1-3), All Transformers Movie, All Jacky Chan Movies

Favorite TV Shows:Game of Thrones, The Amazing Race, Hart of Dixie, Family Guy, Scandal, Naruto Shippuden, Ally Mcbeal, Friends, Macgyver,
Dae Jang Geum


Favorite Books: Too many to mention but the only books I read again more than 3 times is The Little Prince, The Alchemist

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Wed 08/26/15 11:05 PM



oops sorry if we are off topic a bit earlier:)


Snoop/snooped means To pry into the private affairs of others



My Take:

If she snooped..it means she care in a way.
If you have nothing to hide, why worry?
If it's a trust issue and it is important to you and your relationship
with her, then tell her directly.
Maybe her snooping at you, makes her understand you more or love you more.
Caution is not just necessary, it is a necessity, especially if it is the heart that is at stake..especially if you meet her on an online dating site.

just sayinbigsmile


I don't really agree with the snooping as a caring attitude. Snooping is an act of having doubts against your partner, so it's not in anyway near to caring. Once snooping starts, one might get addicted to it.. And if one starts snooping on his/her partner it then implies that the relationship is a big mess #JustSaying :)



I like your take on snooping haha..cool:heart:

so I rechecked the OP:Please be sincere with your answers. Have you ever snooped on your partner? If yes/no give your reasons.
Yikes! its for people with partners haha..I should not be on this thread then..lol:tongue: bigsmile



My take on the OP:

If your partner wants to snoop on you,
even when you are already in a relationship,
then I agree something is already off.
Your partner have doubts.
Would you give up on your partner because he/she has doubts?
Why not reassure him/her and work on your trust with each other.

Allow your partner at least once to snoop on you.
Then talk about it, and how important trust is to
you and in a relationship.

Trust is to be earned.
It is too expensive a commodity to be freely given.
Especially on a dating website.



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Wed 08/26/15 10:31 PM
how can i fix my pictures..help please..i use photobucket..

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Wed 08/26/15 10:30 PM
Like this thread bigsmile




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Wed 08/26/15 04:11 AM
The Ghost of Tom Joad
rocks!bigsmile

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Wed 08/26/15 03:44 AM
In honor of the Trust threadbigsmile

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.

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Wed 08/26/15 03:29 AM

oops sorry if we are off topic a bit earlier:)


Snoop/snooped means To pry into the private affairs of others



My Take:

If she snooped..it means she care in a way.
If you have nothing to hide, why worry?
If it's a trust issue and it is important to you and your relationship
with her, then tell her directly.
Maybe her snooping at you, makes her understand you more or love you more.
Caution is not just necessary, it is a necessity, especially if it is the heart that is at stake..especially if you meet her on an online dating site.

just sayinbigsmile

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Wed 08/26/15 02:44 AM




Yes I have and wholeheartedly regretted it. A) because it ain't right and B) because my intuition turned out to be right.
Then you're stuck with the question: What am I gonna do with the knowledge?
Him angry cause I snooped, me angry cause of what he'd done.
So yeah, I had done something wrong, but so had he ...


Wow! Very Realistic.:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Addiction aside. More on, man-woman healthy routine:QUESTIONS

- regret? so that means its not good in a relationship, right?

- why can't you just ask him directly?

- are you afraid he will lie to you?

- are you afraid he will be mad if he knows you are doubting him
and you are proven wrong?

- is it really wrong to just ask him to clarify
if you have doubts?

- is it a fear of not a 'good judge of character'
when it comes to loving a man?

- is it because of a misplaced trust issue before
with another man?

- will it affect and damage the 'love' you have with each other after?


Well, you know ... I think that if you don't have hangups causing you to be overly jealous/scared etc, and you do get a very strong intuitive knowing that something is seriously off ... you mostly got good reason to be suspicious.
And if you are right, the other is not likely to own up about it, cos they know they've done something they weren't supposed to have done.
How it will affect the relationship and love for one another after either one has effed up... depends on the state of the relationship and what exactly has happened, why and how often.

In my case, my ex is a narcissist and they are pathological manipulators and liars. No way would he have admitted to anything, he'd just twist and turn things around.
So in that relationship the trust and honesty etc had gone out the window because of all the chit he did.
I didn't even really bother checking on him anymore. It would only upset me, resulting in me getting an ulcer or a heart attack, lol, and he'd go on anyways. It was time to get out. And I did.

Next relationship, if ever I find myself a partner again, I think (hope) I will pay heed to my intuition sooner instead of ignoring it because he tells me I'm wrong.


You can't ask him directly, because you know he would lie,
especially if it happens more than once,
that is why you are forced to snoop..

So, I think there is no cause for you to wholeheartedly regret ma'am
in snoopingbigsmile ..if you feel, your reason is justified.

I will have to agree with Justfun..you did not do anything wrong.
The fact that you are in a relationship with him, that means you know better than anyone else who he really is.
If being who he is, hurts you or other people, and you have already given your best and it is still not enough to change him..then be thankful that you have acted on your gut feeling.

No need to wholeheartedly regret ma'am..Kudos:thumbsup:



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Tue 08/25/15 02:48 AM


Yes I have and wholeheartedly regretted it. A) because it ain't right and B) because my intuition turned out to be right.
Then you're stuck with the question: What am I gonna do with the knowledge?
Him angry cause I snooped, me angry cause of what he'd done.
So yeah, I had done something wrong, but so had he ...


Wow! Very Realistic.:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Addiction aside. More on, man-woman healthy routine:QUESTIONS

- regret? so that means its not good in a relationship, right?

- why can't you just ask him directly?

- are you afraid he will lie to you?

- are you afraid he will be mad if he knows you are doubting him
and you are proven wrong?

- is it really wrong to just ask him to clarify
if you have doubts?

- is it a fear of not a 'good judge of character'
when it comes to loving a man?

- is it because of a misplaced trust issue before
with another man?

- will it affect and damage the 'love' you have with each other after?




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Tue 08/25/15 01:57 AM

It normally take me five beers, two shots of tequila and three tacos for me to say it.


rofl
Nice one Sir!bigsmile

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Tue 08/25/15 01:54 AM
Wow!:heart:

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Tue 08/25/15 01:51 AM
However much I know otherwise part of me has always felt that life has no real meaning until you get to share it with somebody.
Maybe that's what I'm afraid of: my life finally taking meaning or suddenly becoming void of it.

-Ally McBeal

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Tue 08/25/15 01:22 AM
Miss Tilly
this is for my bestfriend I haven't seen for a long time..


almost 17 years ago..
but feels like yesterday

the last time
i saw my bestfriend's
bespectacled eyes..


Ch?:smile:
Do you still watch the moon
when things are not right?
I still do.

Ch?drinker
Do you still listen to
Jose Mari chan, parokya ni edgar & evanescence?
I still do.

Ch?embarassed
Do you still sometimes feel nostalgic
to beverly hills 90210, friends & ally mcbeal?
I still do.

Ch?glasses
Do you still have faith in
friendship & loyalty?
I still do.

Ch?flowerforyou
Do you still believe in
what you value most in life?
I still do.

Ch?pitchfork
Do you still like causeways?
I still do.

Ch?smooched
Do you still love the rain?
I still do.

Ch?:heart:
Do you still miss me?
I still do.


-Jane