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 Just checked on the south.. Looks like citizens thought that I am against the Allied Powers. Must be the sound of my war horns. Well.. instant message wise, I have always enjoyed a positive and healthy relationship with the Allied Powers and they will always have my respect and loyalty - no matter what. One of those in Allied powers is the one who said Chin up. And I decided to honor her by not throwing in the white towel. Must be really the tune of the war horns. My bad this time. |
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Dating?
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who can tell me the real meaning of dating? Urban Dictionary says: Of a couple, to be in the early stages of a relationship where they go out on dates to find out what each other is like, as a prelude to actually being a fully fledged couple. Wiki says: Dating is a part of the human mating process whereby two people meet socially for companionship, beyond the level of friendship, or with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or marriage. It can be a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by the couple. While the term has several meanings, it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple. My Take: It is a verbal and public acknowledgement of 2 people attracted to each other. And they want both to see where it leads- Goodbyes or commitment. It is a couple's act of measuring each others worth for a lifetime partner and commitment. |
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What I really want is a truthful meaningful relationship with that one special lady Everyone does. Whether they admit it or not verbally, No matter how jaded, man or woman - wants meaningful relationship with someone special. I refuse to give that energy to someone again until it's reciprocated whole-heartedly So you have given someone THAT energy. But it was not being reciprocated. if I'm giving you my mind my body and soul then I expect the same so tired of the mind games ,manipulation and so forth I'm old school old fashioned. There it is again, you want it to be reciprocated. If you are in the same page with the woman and your feelings are reciprocated, then there should be no mind games or manipulation. To suggest that there is a mind game- then one of you is not convince of each other's worth. To suggest that there is a manipulation - then one of you is not in love with his/her partner. Mind. Body. Soul.?? You should have clicked and jived with just mind and body. How much more if souls are involve. When I love I love hard when in a relationship if there is something you want your partner to do you should tell them if the relationship has lost its life do something to bring life back into it seeking outside of the relationship for satisfaction is not the answer Sir. You are putting yourself to be taken for granted. It doesn't matter how hard you love. What matters is if that love is reciprocated. If your partner values you as much as you value her. If she really knows your worth- she will never even think of seeking outside for satisfaction. You are more than enough. The real question is does she feel the same way about you? so tell me what do you ladies really want? I can only speak for myself. Each individual is different. I want someone who believes in goodness. I want someone who can lead me. I want someone who may not matter to other people but when we are together we matter. I want someone who is best when I am with him. I want someone who can make me a better person when I am with him. Now that is what I want. What I need is: Good decision maker Good judge of character. Consistent. |
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Another my first on this thread..
Must be my day of breaking personal rules and being a devil's advocate:) Do not hold your breath yet sweetie.. I only bow and follow rules to 3 people here in M2. If I choose to fight invincible, Gods & Goddesses who feel they are omnipotent outside M2, then it is my business. But at least with this people I am fighting with, I always know I am on their bad side. With you?..I always see you as a farmer.. sowing seeds of? sowing seeds of? sowing seeds of? For someone very in love, there is always this tinge of bitterness.. Backbone sweetie.. not backbite. |
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music and songs
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recently separated
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I recently separated with my wife of 8 years . I did realize how hard it would be. Or how lonely I feel. I can't even sleep more than 2 hours in a row. Any advice I could really use it . Thanks I do not have any experience and knowledge about separation Sir, but I do know about pain.How hard it would be.And can't even sleep. Lonely-meaning: you wish someone is there that you can talk to you wish someone is there that you can hold on to you wish someone is there who can take your mind away from dwelling on things, you can't do anything about and is uncontrollable. you wish there is something you can do, to stop from thinking and feeling. If I may suggest: Do not go near any alcohol. Make an effort to not think of what you could have done to change the outcome. Do not make impulsive decisions. Stop thinking of yourself first - the pain will consume you. Think of the people first, that are affected of what just happened. Kids? Parents? Close Friends? They are worried about you. Do not impose on their loyalties and sympathies.You will unintentionally hurt & confuse them. Try to distance yourself from them, and see first what is need to be done. What needs to be prioritized. By doing that, you stop yourself from feeling your own pain. You have something to focus on. By the end of the day, doing that, you will be too tired and emotionally spent, that your body would demand sleep. Sleep is important to stay sharp and healthy. Health is a weapon to survive. You owe it to everyone who cares for you to deal with that pain, without being destructive to your love one and to yourself. You owe it to everyone who cares for you and needs you to survive. Live one day at a time. Survive. Thrive. Focus on finding balance. Be impartial to your pain and to the people who are watching you dealing with your pain. Live. Always choose to live, no matter what. Hope. Always choose to hope, no matter what. |
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MY QUOTE OF THE DAY
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Sometimes you make choices in life and sometimes choices make you. ― Gayle Forman, If I Stay |
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Did you know.... - part 3
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Did you know that this is my first time to visit this thread?
Did you know that I never use anonymous thread and how do you feel thread? Why? Because I always prefer to be clear of my intentions. But then I feel the need to say this that I need to break some of my personal rules: Did you know? YES YOU, that I almost get tempted to instant message you my fb account so we can PM each other as fb friends. ALMOST. I am so relieved that I hold back and stay cautious in that area. Given what happens here in Mingle now. Stay away and do not bring trouble to yourself. It is not worth it. |
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Will you ever write a book on yourself? No. |
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Seduce an Marry.....
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Guess not everyone is so smart? Lol. If I hadn't been able to get rid of the ads, I would have been long gone! I hate ads. I didn't even know there were ads (thank you AdBlock!) until I used my phone, haha. Yes Ms. crystal not everyone is smart and good in the internet and technology. Adblock.i googled it: AdBlock is a content filtering and ad blocking extension for the Google Chrome, Apple Safari, Mozilla Firefox, and Opera web browsers. AdBlock allows users to prevent page elements, such as (and mainly) advertisements, from being displayed. What I cant understand is why? Why would someone hurt other people because of some advertisement the other person don't know about. So what if it was accidentally clicked?and it pop's up. Would an account be there, magically even if that person never registered to that indecent site? So what of the advertisement? does that mean I am bad because my profile was there when I am only logged in to Mingle and never ever use that site.Just because I dont have Adblock? does not having an adblock and logging in to mingle tantamount to me being registerd on those indecent site? I never logged in to any dating site except Mingle! and yet people told me that my pictures are already out there..dont tell me the picture and the account just came in there without anyone registering it a few days ago? Would that be even possible that just by accidentally clicking an ad, my profile too with be on that ad, when I only am registered to Mingle? |
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scammers/fake attraction
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Just wondering how people can play with someones feelings, pretend to care and only to discover that every single message, pic or phonecall was a lie! How do they live with themselves????????? You are a woman. So you know how it feels to be vulnerable. You know what is worst than the OP? I just have known today, that apparently the picture that you posted in good faith for the first time in public was used on another site just few days ago? Talk about how people could play with others pictures? Why? I just found out today that from someone I trust and have very high opinion with , instant message me that it is all ready out there, nothing can be done.. and when I googled my username..I am reported for abuse. why? I even block instant messages who's profile doesnt come from the forum after few weeks of being polite. Why? When I only send 2 instant messages for 2 guys in my first day and it is my first mingle poem because I see in his profile he doesnt have a job.The other is a line of a song to scream. Why? When even if they are from the forum,and I received their instant message i told them promptly who is my mingle crush. Or logged out after exchanging few words so as not to encourage. Why? When I have never ever send FIRST an instant message to ANY MALE HERE IN mingle..except: 1. On my first day (2 guys)-and that was it, it stop that very day. 2. To someone I have an issue in the forum because of songs. 3. To an administrator when I committed a mistake on the forum topics. 4.. Yesterday to someone I cleared out with something. All instant messages are FORMAL and NO ROMANTIC ISSUES ARE INVOLVE. So why would someone report an abuse, when I never use the instant message for any romantic issues.How evil. Why? I wish I have just been scammed than this.. at least I could blame myself, I am an idiot for believing the guys words? but this..I cant even do a dam@! thing.. I wish I was scammed miss than this. How do they live with themselves????????? It is evil. |
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��It seems I must have clicked on a Oasis Singles ad as I've been told I'm showing as online there when I haven't even joined. Does anybody know how to remedy this as obviously I haven't joined as a member so can't log in to log offline if you get me.� I would defiantly contact that site's administrators. I would imagine your photo has been stolen and is being used by someone with less than stellar intentions, since you have not joined that site. On a very serious note ladies.. Could this really be possible? I mean.. for me it is more than mudslinging and petty now. I mean it is serious and evil.. if somebody would make an account for you and use your picture. Did I get it right? Is there a way of checking the date of when this account is made? Is it the same date that someone reach out to someone on a certain website? The fact the you Miss post your picture in good faith for the first time in public and it would be used by someone for evil motives, is really a serious matter. |
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Death of a Cardiologist
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 Oh God.. 
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MY QUOTE OF THE DAY
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 I will echo the sentiment^^. And though I do not have a God, I can safely say that let life deal with them. My quote of the day: I am happy for the first time in a long while that I have no one special. I am happy that I choose to block messages instead of giving in to the temptation. I am happy that I stumbled in mingle. And though I am not very happy being alone and still searching. I am happy that I have stayed and learn from people. - Jane |
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How do you approoach guy?
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Hiya Sileia  Mmmmmm let's see he works in a movie theatre place, You like movies, So there is a common factor! Maybe you could break the ice with him by talking about movies? Maybe you could ask him if he actually likes movies? And you could let him know which movies you REALLY like, And possibly even drop a hint that you would love to find someone, decent, working and sensible (not a froot cake ) to go watch a specific movie with? As some of the other lovely members have said previously, "Dont ever think you are out of someones league" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and what one person finds attractive, others may not! When you ask the guy about movies or anything else that you decide to talk about, watch the Guys answers..... I'm sure you know about open and closed answers, Closed answers are answers like single word.. "Yes", "No", "Sometimes", "Maybe".... etc These answers do not encourage conversation and in most cases show disinterest.... Open answers are just that "Open".... They encourage and lead the conversation further and further.... So this may be a good way to gauge his interest in you. When you ask him any questions, try not to ask questions which can be answered in a single word.... Try to ask questions which kind of dig for his personal slant/view/opinion... Off course you will have to play it by ear, and simple change your tactics according to the responses you receive. Good Luck Sileia  PS Sometimes we all feel like another person is so hot he/she would not even look at us, but in reality, many of these hot people have often said, they do not enough attention and people pass them by because they are frightened or intimidated by the person beautiful/attractive looks!! So never say never Sileia... Live Long and Prosper (with a hooooge fambly of your own  ) I will drink to this 
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Topic:
A particular addition
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LOVE + HAPPINESS + SHARING = ? What do you expect to get with this addition in life? Thanks for comments  Love - A person in your life who accepts you despite your being you are & who you accepts despite his being him:) + Happiness - You are happy being with each other. You are more alive when you are with each other. + Even if there were fights..it still ended on slow kisses. Even if when there were tears..it still ended on warm hugs. Even if there is less.. you manage, because you have each other. = Total trust and commitment. |
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my sons death
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this is hard to do. yesterday was one year from when my youngest son David killed him self. my x-wife is having a hard time with it. and my oldest son Jeffery, called me yesterday and we talked about it. and this was good for both of us. and have had other heavy duty family issues. and i have some great people helping me. my very good friend Donna i have known her 12 years. and most of all is my cousin Brenda has supported me better than i deserve. so as all ways God is working in my life. i just have to lesson to him.  It is very courageous of you to put it in writing sir. And I hope in a way it lessens the pain of commemorating your loss of that special someone. People always say that feeling your pain and sharing it with someone special too helps more than a lot..and I think you have exactly done that. Kudos. But forgive your youngest son for leaving you and making you go thru all that pain, forgive yourself, that you were not able to help him in the end. Forgive yourself that you chose to live and he chose not to. Live again Sir. Love again Sir. Life is still ahead..we owe to our love one's to continue and get as much as happiness as we can in our everyday life. All the best:)heart: |
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September 11 .
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What separates us from the animals, what separates us from the chaos, is our ability to mourn people we’ve never met. ― David Levithan, Love Is the Higher Law |
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How happy
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What do you do FIRST when you are COMPLETELY HAPPY? I buy a new plant or a bouquet of flowers. Then go get a new haircut and an unscheduled manicure & pedicure:) |
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What was your the best dream you have ever had? Or what was the scariest dream you have ever had? Figuratively speaking: Dream: As an only daughter, I dream of being able to take care of my parents in person starting next week. I dream that I actually have convince them to stay with me, so I can pursue my career that I work so hard to achieve where I am now. Waking up on that dream: Even in phone conversation - their answer is no. They will not relocate.They dont like the urban life. Scariest Nightmare: I was too late. When I went home my parents were no longer there. I cant make up to my parents what I have always long to do, since everything was looking up. Waking up on that nightmare: I will call them. Ask them if they are okay. And tell them to wait for me. |
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