Goofball73

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Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Tue 03/26/13 08:04 AM Topic: Describe your sex life with a famous movie title. Missing In Action

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Sun 03/24/13 06:05 AM Topic: Dating a friends ex-husband I read the question and was immediately taken back to high school. Remember those days where you liked a girl and you tell your buddy that you like her and yet you are shy to ask her out. And then said buddy moves in, asks her out and she accepts and they start dating. You feel like he cheated you out cause he knew you liked her but he reminds you that you didn't move on your own feelings and he was tired of waiting around. You then realize (after a few days or weeks of being ticked off at him) that he is right. So all is well and you move on to the next girl you are crushing on. Sure you liked the original crush you had but once your buddy and her break it off you won't go in for sloppy seconds. Lol. Ahhhhhhh youth.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Sat 03/23/13 01:55 PM Topic: Raising the Bar QUOTE: Do you raise the bar every time you chose a new person to date? If so how so...if not so how so also? I just want her to "raise my bar".

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Sat 03/23/13 01:53 PM Topic: Falling for those who are out of reach So you feel that the "man of your dreams" is this doctor and he happens to be married. Hmmmmm. I hate to be blunt here but when I hear people talk like this the one thing I think is, "You know he/she is taken, so you either go for what you want or accept life for what it is and move along". Doctors are notorious flirts and while he says he won't leave his marriage, I bet if you (or some other woman) asked him to he would probably do it. I have seen men who stated they were unhappy in their marriage and were staying for their kids only to have a woman come along and tempt them. And guess what? Those dudes divorced and moved along. He sounds like the type where a woman would have to shove him into ending his marriage, and if he is that unhappy then eventually he will end up divorced. Just my opinion.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Thu 03/21/13 12:09 PM Topic: Personality changes QUOTE: QUOTE: I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship. Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head. What are your thoughts? I have experienced this myself. But don't dispair, because after years of research, I believe I've come up with a fool proof solution to prevent this from happening to us ever again. My research notes: The euphoric high you experience when falling in love is comparable to the endorphin high experience when eating chocolate. My plan: After the “honeymoon phase” is over, feed him a steady diet of chocolate. Wait a minute! There is such a thing a steady diet of chocolate? Why have I missed out on this marvelous creation?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Thu 03/21/13 06:57 AM Topic: Is it wrong to cheat QUOTE: I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. If your happy and you know it....sleep with another woman....clap, clap.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:47 PM Topic: Aside from Technology QUOTE: QUOTE: Back in the old days you may get a few stories like that, but then you'd have the hot weather girl We still have a hot weather girl on one of our local stations. Proof positive that the world is still good.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:45 PM Topic: Whats the deal?? Once you stated "Logic" and "TV" then I began to laugh.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:36 PM Topic: Aside from Technology I feel that technology has made it tons easier to inform us of all the bad stuff that is happening. Look at your local news. Most of the time the stories they cover are about death, robbery, assault, thievery, fights, arguments, etc. Back in the old days you may get a few stories like that, but then you'd have the hot weather girl and the quirky sports caster to lighten things up. Fact is, I see kindness and rudeness every day. Some days the bad outweighs the good and on other days it is vice versa. I believe people care more selfishly for their own needs because we have learned that it isn't a bad thing to be selfish (Thanks to Oprah, Dr. Phil, The Kardashians, etc). Bad things happen to good people. The reasons why that is are beyond me. Our world is a scary place but I believe there is still a ton of good in it.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:27 PM Topic: women love guys who treat them badly?? You guys ever think that perhaps the reason some women will go for the "bad boy" is due to the fact that...at the very least....the bad boy makes life interesting? Let's face it. If you are with a woman and you keep her bored, then she is going to look for excitement. When a man gets the girl, a man tends to have this bad habit of becoming complacent. This will kill any relationship, and it will drive a girl into wanting a man for excitement. A "bad boy" may run around on her, or not be there for her when she needs it, but there will never be a dull moment while she is with him. Men can be nice guys all they want, but the fact is that a vast majority of women simply don't want JUST that. They need a man to be an azz at times, be nice at times and be the lover she dreams of at times. You do that and you have harmony.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:17 PM Topic: money and love QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: oh please. no woman is going to go out with the guy who has no money. sorry, that's just a fact. BS. I recently dated a poor man who had very little money. He had other things to offer, and I enjoyed my time with him. Money really isn't everything. then you're the exception, nt the rule. while money is not everything, it is one of the main things people look at. i admit i'm materialistic. wish it weren't so, but it's true. I was in a relationship with two men who had no money so yes there is At the same time? Haha! NO, I read what I wrote and it does look that way I was going to give you props for handling two men at once.....in dating terms that is.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:15 PM Topic: Date QUOTE: I have been getting a bit angry at the dating prospects here. I have been getting jaded and not believing the things I am reading. I do not want to be angry or jaded. I just do not believe that people who are 22 can not find dates. I do not believe that people need advice about people they have not met. I am not a mean person, not hopeless but..I gotta say..this site is not helping my hopes. Who is for real? People can stretch the truth about things. When they say that they cannot find dates, they probably mean that they haven't found any dates lately. I think if you anticipate someone is lying then you will become more jaded.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 04:06 PM Topic: money and love QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: oh please. no woman is going to go out with the guy who has no money. sorry, that's just a fact. BS. I recently dated a poor man who had very little money. He had other things to offer, and I enjoyed my time with him. Money really isn't everything. then you're the exception, nt the rule. while money is not everything, it is one of the main things people look at. i admit i'm materialistic. wish it weren't so, but it's true. I was in a relationship with two men who had no money so yes there is At the same time?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Wed 03/20/13 09:33 AM Topic: Is it wrong to cheat Time to get real here. You've asked if cheating is wrong and I can imagine that everyone here will tell you that it is, in fact, wrong. Thing is you already ARE cheating and I think that you know that it is wrong. How would you feel if your wife was banging some other dude behind your back? I can tell you from experience that it isn't a fun thing to learn about. Someone you love and trust, never thinking that they would cheat on you and yet.....WHAM! It happens. The whole world knows that cheating on someone isn't right. The whole world knows that you shouldn't speed on the highway, that you shouldn't smoke (cause it can kill you), that you shouldn't drink till you are of age (and we all know how that works out, lol). My point is that we all know the things that we shouldn't do. And that is why those things are so very enticing to us. You need sex and your wife just isn't fitting the bill. You say you love her dearly but she just isn't sexually able. Dude, you made your choice in that you found another piece of azz to help satisfy your sexual desire. And the thing is you will continue to seek to fulfill that craving cause you need it. Your wife will find out one day (if she doesn't already know) and she will choose one of two options. She will stay with you and allow you to continue your sexual exploits or she will leave your butt. If she does stay then she will act as if she has no idea about your cheating. I know of a couple of women who have stayed with their husbands even when these women knew their men were humping around. It happens more often than you think and the reasons women stay with men vary. You know it's wrong. However, you will keep telling yourself that you love your wife but you just need some sex to help make you a whole happy person. Because this is what it is all about dude...you want to be fully happy and now that you are getting some you are satisfying that sexual need. You crossed the boundary dude and now you just have to deal with that. I'm not gonna tell you that you do or don't love your wife. However, I will say that there are few who would not cross that boundary (which is a shame). I think you love your wife for who she is and now your selfishness has made you look elsewhere for the very thing she isn't giving you. I could go on and on about what you should or shouldn't have done, but the fact is why does it matter? You are seeking validation for cheating because your wife can't satisfy you sexually and you are probably not going to find that validation here. Just my two cents.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Tue 03/19/13 05:41 PM Topic: money and love QUOTE: QUOTE: Anna Nicole Smith married for love right? true. and he married her cuz she was good in the kitchen ;) Mmmmmmmm.....and what wonderful melons she had in the kitchen.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Tue 03/19/13 05:36 PM Topic: Affection I wanna still be doing the bump n grind when I am 70, so affection and all that jazz will be mandatory.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Tue 03/19/13 05:31 PM Topic: money and love Anna Nicole Smith married for love right?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Fri 03/15/13 08:33 AM Topic: Activity Partners Here is the thing. Most of us know what the meaning behind "Activity Partner", or we assume that when we see it on a person's profile that all that person is looking for is sex. Nothing wrong with that and I think it is mighty big of a person to just straight up say that is what he/she wants. However, the stigma with Activity Partner is that if a guy has it on his profile, he is labeled as a manwhore. If a woman has it, then most men see her as either a sexually confident woman or a tease. Women tend to view other women with this title as "little ho bags", lol. It's just funny how when a person is honest about their intentions, they do become labeled.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Fri 03/15/13 08:17 AM Topic: Would you date a mermaid or a merman? I'm guessing the main barrier would be how I would survive the trek to her home world deep into the ocean. And how she would fair meeting some of my relatives who would want to use her as fish bait. Alas, these are merely obstacles and true love knows no bounds.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 28978	Fri 03/15/13 08:10 AM Topic: Biggestl turn off in opposite sex I know my bud Torgo will appreciate this.... Hot chick who is into Twilight. The Horror!

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