It depends on your goal.

Why are some people acting like women just never want to hook up?

And that women never have friends with bennies?

It's almost like there is a belief that women don't enjoy sex as much as men. Which if you believe that, you are having sex with the wrong men.

I am not some big schlore but women like sex to.

Some guys respect a woman on the first date because of how she carries herself.

I mean I have a friend who if I wanted to get some at any time I could.

Sometimes friends with bennies is a good thing. Let's say you are single and rather get into a relationship with the wrong person just because you want sex, you go to your friend with bennies.

I currently am seeing someone so out of respect for him, I do not talk to those sorts of people in my life but when I was single and horny, oh hell ya. Just bring the comdoms.

A friend of my hair dresser's daughter was driving herself home from getting her tongue pierced and went into aliphatic shock. Her tongue swelled cutting off her air. She totaled her car and ram another car. She almost died.

And guys so totally will be picturing their winkie in her mouth.

AND it does totally chip your teeth and change your speech.

You guys know I just broke up with the guy who cried. Well, the very next day, I run into a local guy who is my dream boat and who loves all my weird quirks and eccentricities. What the heck do I do? I mean you all know I am a serial monogamist. But this is crazy even for me.

I have a sign in my bedroom

"When I get the urge to clean house, I lay down until it passes"!

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

You all know my weird thing. GOOD DADDIES ARE SEXY. Good Daddy crying over his daughter in a tender moment, EXTRA SEXY.

I have had two dudes (big tough dudes) cry when we broke up. Both times, I just sat there not knowing what to do. I mean we were breaking up so I didn't think it was right to hug them. I didn't feel horrible. I just felt awkward. I just didn't know what my reaction should be.

What should I have done? Guys, do you feel awkward when some chick bursts into tears?

TL

He said "I just feel like we don't make each other happy anymore". I said that I thought we should break up and I had been wanting to for awhile but it was never the right time. I mean he was obviously going there but I jumped in right away. So I am not sure if that counts as him, me or mutual.

My boyfriend and I broke up last night. He was crying. I have not shed a tear. I feel numb to the whole thing and actually a little relieved. I also feel a little guilty that I do not miss him or feel bad.

Hi Everyone,

I know I drive everyone nuts talking about my guy friend friends. Well, one of them crossed over that line and I know have an official boyfriend. I listen to all your advice about not talking about exs and such as he is a guy's guy and the commands a certain amount of respect. He treats me really well. He knows about my bipolar. He is good with me.

So my friend friends, please continue to write. Otherwise, I am off the market.

Love,

TL

My boyfriend and I just went up to the central coast. We stayed in Lompoc. We visited places in SLO and Santa Barbara.

I am a happy kid. I just got a new car. My boyfriend is awesome. My only problem is my allergies to the fresh cut lawn.

You guys have seen me in make up and without. I never wear heavy make up. I prefer Bare Minerals because my boyfriend has no interest in waiting five years for me to do makeup. I can do Bare Minerals in 5 minutes. Also we go hiking and such and regular make up melts and drips off. My boyfriend votes for no make up. I wear flavored lip gloss and that's it. He doesn't like it rubbing off on pillow cases, etc.

Hi Everyone,

As you all know I was engaged and broke it off in April. I have dated several people since then. I have decided not to date until January. I think I need a mourning period. That was a very hard thing moving to Texas and then calling off the marriage and moving back. I did not give myself time to mull it over and let it register. And before him I had a live in boyfriend until August of 2011 for a year. And I got with him before my divorce was even final. I feel like I have just been jumping from relationship to relationship and I really need some down time.

TL

I will date from 40 (1 year younger than me) to 57 (16 years older than me). I don't know why I picked those magic numbers. I just did.

I have to lose 40 pounds because I was diagnosed as borderline diabetic.

I hope I spelled that right. Since I moved, I have been going on dates with all different ethnic backgrounds. I did not do that when I was younger.

I have a date on Sunday with a guy from the Philippines. I am looking forward to that. He gets all my jokes which most people do not.

Anyway, it's been an interesting experience.

Anybody else branching out of their comfort zone?

Hi Everyone,

I got diagnosed as borderline diabetic this week. I have to lose the few extra pounds I have gained and I have to exercise. Exercise is hard because I sprained my ankle very badly in the winter and I thought it was better and it's reinjured.

Anyway, it's scary.

Terri

Guys who say they like everything about me and then proceed to try to change everything about me. What is that about????