Simply put you have to understand that unlike in real life using the internet to find someone is alot harder because of all the storys that you have undoubtedly heard. As newbiechick stated you do have to be the aggressor doesnt work the other way around.

there is no chatroom the chat is to talk with an individual person for example if you click my name there are several orange buttons one is instant message if you click that it will send a message to me fyi

profile is fine welcome to the site.

I dont understand what you just said.

Just to point out this is clearly a troll posting, considering this person has already made up their mind no point in making this posting its just to get people riled up.

... Simple answer everyone kisses differently, find someone you want to kiss and practice, practice, practice.

you can block the individual sender thats about all i know of but if the person keeps pestering you i suppose you can report them for harrasment to the admins/mods

A wise man avoids violence but knows when to confront it.

Can I get a translation ?

You can chat with an individual when you click their name and then click instant messaging.

I had the same problem and was told that its on the yahoo side not mingle.

Well since my contacting others is not working very well in terms of finding someone I thought id put this up in hopes of finding someone. Ive had a few women say they are interested in me and then all contact drops which I suppose is not unusual for the internet. I would prefer to find someone to hang out with rather then someone to email once in a while. So if any women are on here looking for somthing similar to what im looking for and are attracted to me hit me up.

I just checked my standard search again its not there now. There was one from Newyork with a yellow boarder around their picture I also saw that individual from the mutual match.

Since the problem is no longer here I guess its no big deal. Thanks for checking though.

well its not a big deal dont wanna put too much effort into dealing with unless its easily fixed.

Well you cant ask out right. You have to be a little suave, but you asked what I want to know not what I do know :P.

What the person looks like, any std and personality.

Both on matches and when I do the search show people from Kansas and Newyork. Why is it showing me this and how do I fix it so that it only shows people in my state?

I have it setup so people within 25 miles show up on the search thing.

ive been told a few times that im non chalant so I think that can be considered mellow

yea its legit and far better then pay sites in the sense that there are far fewer if any scammers on this site by ratio.

Marcus just a heads up its clear you were trying to hit on her and she most likely is the type of girl that doesnt want to be mean to you by saying no so she is giving you a very clear answer by avoiding you. But if you want a real answer ask her out straight, not a by the way do you wanna hang out type of thing.

Most of the women that ive met in college are not like the girls you meet in highschool by the way.