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Thu 07/26/12 06:59 AM
Well, I didn't realize that my last post would completely kill comments... Come on people, step up and give me more of your honest opinions.

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Wed 07/04/12 01:05 PM
Believe me, I wish it weren't real. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. Thank you Metalwing, you joined my first wife whom couldn't accept it either - we talked to many counselors, doctors, urologists, and we were finally refered to the Urological Dept of the University of Utah.
Anyone whom is skeptical of any of this can contact Dr. Ensign and the staff there and check the information out.
For several years I lived the life recommended by HawaiiMusikMan, and was in constant trouble with ecclesiastical leaders. I then met my 1st wife and thought all the problems would be solved. Even after we recognized differences in libido, I was confident that if we each loved each other enough the problem could be met. I guess all of this would be a mute point if I weren't commited to my religion or my 1st wife had had an extremely high libido...
Now after MANY years of pain, I am looking for someone whom is compatible religiously and yet is emotionally strong enough to help me meet my physiological problem.
PacificStar48 - you are correct in thinking that the profile wouldn't get me what I want. The profile is viewed and ignored. My regular profile isn't producing much either.
After these most recent reviews, I am learning to even more appreciate the recommendation of my friends (including my 1st wife), whom recommended not creating a regular profile with this information in it...
My only problem with either approach is that the pain continues - only partially masked by Tylenol, Ibuprophen, etc. - and will do so until ???
Recently I had a discussion with a friend about pain. He was told by his wife (much like I was by mine), that us men do not understand pain. That we would have to be able to have children to understand pain. I really appreciated his sharing with me his arguement which stopped the discussion in his house. Women usually decide to have more children, sometime after having had their 1st child -- When was the last time you had a man ask you to kick him in the testicles a second time?

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Fri 06/29/12 09:05 PM
I would like to thank you all for the great feedback!

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Fri 06/22/12 07:51 PM
Would you be willing to give me an honest opinion?
Please read my profile and tell me if it is more honest to have a regular profile and date and then pop the information I do in this profile on a poor woman OR put this problem forth and see whom will then consider dating me. My soon to be past wife and friends all recommend that I not put the problem forth to the world, but I feel bad that We didn't know what We were up against when We got married.