Would you be willing to give me an honest opinion?
Please read my profile and tell me if it is more honest to have a regular profile and date and then pop the information I do in this profile on a poor woman OR put this problem forth and see whom will then consider dating me. My soon to be past wife and friends all recommend that I not put the problem forth to the world, but I feel bad that We didn't know what We were up against when We got married.

I think the beginning of your profile, your headline and info, at first glance, don't mesh.....the rest of your profile looks like a medical pamphlet.

Too much info in my opinion. I would leave it out and talk about it one to one, once you are in communication with someone you like or feel a connection with.

Definitely too much for a profile. If you get to know someone and start to hit it off, let them know what's going on.

Dude, you even made it your screen name for goodness sake! Don't let a serious case of blue balls define you. I'm not trying to be insensitive, but that's something that can be discussed when you're getting to know someone. You should be up front about it in my opinion, but not this up front.

I'm a Christian too and I've never read in the Bible that masturbation is a sin. To covet your neighbor's wife, to look upon a woman to lust, yes. I don't think God will send lightning bolts your way for relieving your pain once a week. Just my opinion

I would like to thank you all for the great feedback!

This can't be real.

Agreed. Doesn't seem real

I never underestimate the power of the internet but i doubt that this profile is going to get you anything you want if it is not just a prank.

Believe me, I wish it weren't real. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. Thank you Metalwing, you joined my first wife whom couldn't accept it either - we talked to many counselors, doctors, urologists, and we were finally refered to the Urological Dept of the University of Utah.
Anyone whom is skeptical of any of this can contact Dr. Ensign and the staff there and check the information out.
For several years I lived the life recommended by HawaiiMusikMan, and was in constant trouble with ecclesiastical leaders. I then met my 1st wife and thought all the problems would be solved. Even after we recognized differences in libido, I was confident that if we each loved each other enough the problem could be met. I guess all of this would be a mute point if I weren't commited to my religion or my 1st wife had had an extremely high libido...
Now after MANY years of pain, I am looking for someone whom is compatible religiously and yet is emotionally strong enough to help me meet my physiological problem.
PacificStar48 - you are correct in thinking that the profile wouldn't get me what I want. The profile is viewed and ignored. My regular profile isn't producing much either.
After these most recent reviews, I am learning to even more appreciate the recommendation of my friends (including my 1st wife), whom recommended not creating a regular profile with this information in it...
My only problem with either approach is that the pain continues - only partially masked by Tylenol, Ibuprophen, etc. - and will do so until ???
Recently I had a discussion with a friend about pain. He was told by his wife (much like I was by mine), that us men do not understand pain. That we would have to be able to have children to understand pain. I really appreciated his sharing with me his arguement which stopped the discussion in his house. Women usually decide to have more children, sometime after having had their 1st child -- When was the last time you had a man ask you to kick him in the testicles a second time?

Well, I didn't realize that my last post would completely kill comments... Come on people, step up and give me more of your honest opinions.