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Wed 05/12/10 08:35 PM
sounds real, so normal and heartfelt

roko

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Wed 05/12/10 08:32 PM
i felt that one time in my teens, the hormones are just uncontrollable..what makes it worse is being in an all boys school...much like wrapping bandages on the mouth of a pit bull

roko

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Wed 05/12/10 08:24 PM
How about blocking the person, but not the person's idea? Would this be okay? If not, why?

roko

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Wed 05/12/10 08:13 PM
nice guys...there are plenty of...not too sure about caring...and funny...probably funny looking..

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Wed 05/12/10 08:07 PM
I would like the forums here to look like the ones that are orchestrated by you, that is to say - thought provoking, current, balanced and fair.

The threads I gravitate to are the ones like this.

Roko

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Tue 05/11/10 09:43 PM
"He can't hurt me!"..oh indeed he can...and most will, if things don't go the way he wants it to go...civilized people get back at others by suing, the uncivil by stabbing

roko

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Tue 05/11/10 09:28 PM
playa...really ought to be up-front if you have back-up otherwise you'll be left-up....just be up-right man

roko

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Mon 05/10/10 10:12 PM
Edited by Roco on Mon 05/10/10 10:16 PM
employee asks mgr; is the procedure this way or that way (legit question, but mgr doesn't know, feels embarressed cause its in front of others)

mgr then asks employee; do you know code a/b/c/...finds weakness...exploits weakness...embarrasses employee

..how it is said is just as important as what it is said...perception sometimes outweighs reality...maybe because we are emotional creatures by nature..

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Mon 05/10/10 09:55 PM
anyone else

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Mon 05/10/10 09:45 PM
happens all the time...some of us are better at it than others...politics/business/job interviews...ect

check/raise/call....with words....

the poker chips lost in this case is looking stupid...chips gained...looking smart

same thing for both is reading/showing body language


roko

does anyone know what i am talking about


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Mon 05/10/10 12:50 PM
try a protein shake, i hear it soothes throat

roko

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Mon 05/10/10 12:47 PM
nope, u can add all the pics/words/correct spelling u want...won't help

only so many ways to slice/dice tomato

roko

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Mon 05/10/10 12:44 PM
ya..only if the person was u

roko

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Sat 05/08/10 09:49 PM
although many people consider themselves to be rational people, uninfluenced by stereotype and media, their behavior says otherwise...there is only a small group of people, very small, that are uninfluenced..most of us are influenced in some way or another


getting to the point -- asian man/white women: won't happen in the us...why -- less to do with asian guy not wanting it, but the white women not wanting it...why -- social status/stigma/shame ...why -- media...why -- culture.... culture is very hard to change and it will takes years, perhaps decades for this to become reasonably accepted

asian girl/white man: happens...why -- less to do with the white guy...more to do with asian girl...why -- social status/acceptance...why---media ....why -- culture...(case point -- take a look at all the US porn...white guy/asian girl...never the reverse...NEVER) This has become accepted and is the culture now

i see what i see..in an ideal world, people would date based on whats on the inside, not out...however, as the world gets nastier and as the economy plummets...people are going to revert to the base, and that base is mostly things that we are brainwashed into believing since birth....or well, mostly what the asian girls and white girls are brainwashed into believing..

roko



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Sat 05/08/10 09:17 PM
there are books and statistics on this type of stuff

it is true, as we get older, the chances of meeting someone reduce...significantly after a certain age..and almost 0 after a certain other age

i know the age, but i won't say...cause it really doesn't matter what i say anyway

a statistic is not a person and it won't ever measure a persons heart...and if you have a good heart, then you have a good chance..of meeting someone with an equally good heart

roko


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Thu 05/06/10 11:19 PM



I just spent a year with a man who I love dearly. The second six months we both took a block of really hard nursing science pre reqs. Class ended last week and he dumped me horribly, saying he only used me for grades. I worked so hard and got all A's...I was stupid and let him copy ALL of my homework and gave him test answers. Now I'm crushed and feel stupid at the same time. Am I the only person who has ever felt this way? :(

Hind site is 20/20 as the saying goes, you bear responsibility for your broken heart as much as he does actually. You went against your better judgement, and cheated, allowing him to get close to you. You basically opened the door said take advantage of my heart and mind, and open me up for heartbreak. I am not taking his side, because I do agree, what he did was devious and meant to deceive you as well. You are in college and an adult now. This is a new lesson in your college education.
You are a pretty, obviously intelligent, and vibrant looking young lady that I am sure can do much better than a Neandrathal Jock, rich kid or whatever he was anyways.


You are absolutely right, I think that's why I feel so awful! I did it to myself and I know better. I feel like a failure because I let him do everything he did to me....I gave him answers on test, did his part of a project etc. I'm having a hard time looking in the mirror because of it. Thanks for your insight.


concur with the first assessment...to add, bending of the rules sometimes is okay..it happens, flexibility within reason....in this case, not only were the rules bent, you bent...bent way over..the dude not only screwed u, he screwed the class, the system, and everyone else who frowns on this kind of immorality...but hey, who's to judge anyway...maybe there's some merit in what he's doing anyway...if the context was different, he'd be a hero...i.e. nursing -- he's in the wrong profession, really he should be in business school

roko

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Thu 05/06/10 09:15 PM
my crime -- being civil in an uncivil world...human nature is devolving...time to adapt and fight fire with fire...rules of the game has changed ....pity you if you don't adapt./

what's viewed as crime now won't be in the future...banality of evil..oh humm

roko

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Wed 05/05/10 07:40 PM
i never had to the nerve to say this thread stinks....woops, i said it, how about that...feels rather cathartic

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Wed 05/05/10 07:38 PM
nice and totally honest.....if the honesty is qualified/filtered, is it really honest...

how about just nice, or honest, one or the other...not both

without viewing the profile, can already tell that right off the bat that there are some "wrong"

roko

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Wed 05/05/10 07:34 PM
utah utes

coworkers cousin goes there....thats the extent of

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