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Sat 04/25/15 12:02 AM
Hi Yvette, Happy Birthday for last Saturday! and welcome :smile:

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Wed 04/15/15 01:54 PM
I watched the clip. Its great.
Hard to keep a balance when we really like someone.
I've done all sorts :)

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Mon 01/19/15 04:09 PM

Per your post and profile, looks like we might be in a similar boat. flowerforyou


Hi :) just saw your profile. I love the quotes and your interests.
Sorry you're in the same boat.
Thanks for the flower. Heres one for youflowerforyou

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Mon 01/19/15 03:58 PM

i don't mean to be a big downer here, but.....when we come out of something and have learned to be more cautious, guarded and or protective of ourselves, that's not the same to me as having been "made stronger"

this saying, on the mary poppins scale of spoons full of sugar, ranks right up there with the best of them, however on the reality calibration scope, it scores very low.




I like the spoons full of sugar :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:57 PM

if it is a bullet or a knife that might not make you stronger just saying happy


Or a bus :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:56 PM

All you need to do to know that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger is to look around..good luckflowerforyou


Thank you :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:55 PM

Hello wildflower, that seems to be the ongoing trouble with online chatting and dating. I think its people who try to be a more perfect person in their online lives that ultimately leads to being discovered as a fake personality in the end. There are no winners in a situation like this. You just need to investigate these new dream mates to see if they really are who the portray themselves to be before giving them your heart. In my opinion. friendships are earned through mutual trust and honesty. Better days aheadflowers


Yes thats true and Thank you :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:53 PM

It is very true.
The more intensely you love, the harder the fallout.
But.
It means you did it right.

Overcoming bitterness and fear is only for adults :-)


Thats a lovely way of looking at it. Thank you :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:52 PM

Why be ashamed of being vulnerable? If you close off and get defensive you push men away. You can train yourself to detect the guys that are neither serious nor sincere and are never going to commit. Part of how you do that is to ask about their long term relationships. The next is to see if the guy is pushy and impatient. Then if he actually listens and respects what you have to say....Lastly, pay attention to how he talks about other women.


Thank you :)

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Mon 01/19/15 03:32 PM
"I've learnt a lot dating. I haven't learnt to protect my heart though.
I'm ashamed of that. I do love a lot. I am stronger definitely but
when someone said they were one thing and turned out to be another i
found i was fooling myself into believing the lie for a good while.
I wanted it to be true.

I'm free now but its left me empty and sad. More fool me i suppose :(

It won't stop me loving though and hopefully in the long run it will
make me stronger and wiser."

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Sat 01/17/15 01:24 AM


I had a lovely date recently and i would like to recommend them. Anybody know how to do a testimonial?

Yes :-)
First, to make a Testimonial for someone, you MUST be on their 'Friends' list.

Then, you go to their profile and click on the orange link
for 'Add Testimonial.'
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You may NOT be able to see your testimonial on their profile
page if they have turned off that feature. (To turn ON that
feature, which is on the 2nd page of profile edit:
From a mobile device:
http://m.mingle2.com/edit_profile
From a PC:
http://mingle2.com/user/edit_profile)

>>>Edit Profile>>>(2nd page, hit 'continue after 1st page)>>>Show Testimonials

(This is also the place to edit for your 'Friends' list to show
or not on your profile.)


Thank you :) thats great!! xxxx

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Fri 01/16/15 03:54 AM
I had a lovely date recently and i would like to recommend them. Anybody know how to do a testimonial?

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Mon 09/22/14 03:01 PM
You look gorgeous!! Can't imagine you'll wait long. x

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Tue 08/26/14 04:30 PM
Everything except glace cherries.

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Sat 08/23/14 03:32 AM
You look really beautiful. Thats my rating :)

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Sat 08/23/14 03:28 AM
Edited by wildflower73 on Sat 08/23/14 03:29 AM
Depends what you like to focus on.
I've met some amazing, gifted, warm and witty people on here.
A privilege to have met.
Quite wrong how are mention about gays and lesbians in a derogatory way.

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Sat 08/23/14 03:13 AM
Having sex before marriage i think is important.
Its an old fashioned view to believe we keep our virginity.

Sexual chemistry is an important part of a relationship, well for me it is. Sometimes its not there even with people i have found attractive.

With ways of protecting ourselves from pregnancy and disease i don't see it as a problem. Its part of who we are and helps us evolve. I dont mean a different man every night obviously!

Its a natural loving thing to do when you meet someone , find them attractive and want that closeness you can only get during that intimate moment. An act of love.

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Tue 08/19/14 01:36 AM
When you become one :)


(mushy i know but what i think)

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Tue 08/19/14 01:31 AM
I agree more pics and more info would help.
Hope you find what you are looking for :)

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Tue 08/19/14 01:20 AM

i dont keep anything from my lady
i think she knows me better then i do myself

I agree my partner knows me better than i know myself.
I like it that way.
All relationships are different though arent they and work in a way thats best for them i guess.
I think lots of secrets would leave me insecure and on edge.

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