Forgiving is a tough one.
I think you can only do it when you are ready.
Its taken me a long time.
Letting go is hard and moving on.
I like the poem :)

Thanks and yes you are right.
Have two cats !

Ha ! Thanks!

Thanks, i really appreciate it. :)

St Elmo's Fire

People have different opinions and experiences obviously.

Its not about them understanding your beliefs or you understanding theirs its about the individual. Accepting we all feel different.

I am not religious. I dont believe either way. I like to remain open to all suggestions always and not pretend i know the answer.
I wont be told i have to do one thing on a sunday or wear a certain item because a religion ever told me to.

I believe in love.

I believe there is something we cant possibly understand.

I have had experiences that have changed my views about the afterlife.

I can not say now there is not something.

Well.......its give and take. Both the same. If one gives more than the other there is no balance and if the man doesnt want to give then its the wrong relationship. Its about harmony. To the right man i would happily give everything with open arms :)

24 years with the wrong one and faithful. Yep, i can do it.

Sherlock Holmes

Hi :)

Tonysguboriau (place near me and needed to check spelling before i posted it)

Thank you

Compromising and budging is about respecting each other and caring. You have to do it. Basically because when you love each other its important. I suppose if whatever it was though comes against what you believe in and makes that person very unhappy, may be the relationship couldnt work.

Honesty, compassion, understanding and good sense of humour ( need one with me :)

It seems a dumb question. One i could probably answer myself but i have messaged this guy off this site for a while. We live in the same country not that far away but have never met yet or even spoken on the phone. He says 'you're the one, marry me, i love you' I think ive got caught up in what he says. Basically i would say you can't love someone or decide something like that till you've known each other a while no matter how well we get on.

No i dont. However they are is great if i find their personality attractive.

I wouldnt do the 'hard to get' routine. Just keep it real.

I've learnt that to have honest feelings is often not respected and that love is seen as foolish and a weakness.

Sharing everything, the good and the bad. Loving loads and growing together. Devotion without it being suffocating.