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Mon 09/29/14 03:03 PM
Edited by valtheponytail35 on Mon 09/29/14 03:04 PM

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Mon 09/29/14 03:03 PM

yeah, we could debate this till the cows come home, but my thought is that it would be; nice, special, romantic to have something that only you and your spouse share with each other.


That's the best kind. Candlelight dinner, glass of wine, a slow dance in the middle of the room while The Platters - "Twilight Time" is playing. A kiss. and another longer...and thats how it slowly goes. No hurry... you do what you both feel is right.

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Mon 09/29/14 02:47 PM
BTW, who's into metal musicals or all-star projects?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3p0HTENu_NA

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Mon 09/29/14 02:39 PM
Unnatural Selection - Ayreon

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Mon 09/29/14 01:09 PM
Edited by valtheponytail35 on Mon 09/29/14 01:09 PM

"I believe it has an effect. I was raised with the teaching that sex should only be between a husband and wife, and I still believe that."

Amen, I was ashamed when I had sex before marriage, but it is what it is now, I don't look back, I receive my forgiveness as fast as I'm known to give it.

But Mr.Ponytail, "if it really bothers you, if you can't get your mind off it and whatever you do to distract yourself eventually fails, bringing you back to the sad truth... then you could still compare it to the air." That is why you don't build a foundation on failure, your self-control and will power is found in Jesus Christ alone, along with your confidence, mercy, grace, boldness, power, joy, and eternal life. EVERYTHING in this world fails built upon things that crumble, fade away, and can't sustain, but Jesus Christ NEVER crumbles, NEVER fails, and CAN sustain ALL that is good. Surrender your life to God Val, that IS the ONLY way, it is the only way to defeat ALL addictions PERMANTETLY.

Hmm... should I get a girlfriend or should I get a God instead? Tough choice indeed, what should I do?


I have not problem with self control if it's for the right cause.
Abstinence is NOT the right cause, it's not natural and when servants of god really do give it all up, then THIS happens:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sexual_abuse_cases
and i can google plenty of links to the news threads of members of other religions having similar scandals.
Quite shameful isn't it?

There is no real chance of you and me having an open and prejudice free conversation because while talking to me you think of only few things such as "how can I prove that he's wrong" or "how can i make him believe". And should i respond with some archeological facts or quotes from Bible that shake your beliefs... you'd just shrug it off as u never heard me.

I have read a fair share of history of Judea and I have also read the Bible through 2 times. Comparing it to actual archeological findings from the Palestine gives a somewhat different picture though. If I could get really bored, I could write you a list of Biblical characters who were involved in sexual immorality while outwardly serving your God. But again I don't believe that this will become a constructive conversation.


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Mon 09/29/14 12:11 PM
Nah if you can't even make whole Europe believe in God anymore then certainly none of the secular europeans would think of Jerusalem as holy place.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Europe#Eurobarometer_poll_2010

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Mon 09/29/14 11:19 AM

you may compare it to air, but I can't. I've been breathing my whole life, but I've never had sex.


Well, if you feel the man in you slowly suffocating... if it really bothers you, if you can't get your mind off it and whatever you do to distract yourself eventually fails, bringing you back to the sad truth... then you could still compare it to the air.

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Mon 09/29/14 11:04 AM


The record holder is gotta be Genghis Khan. He has 16 million decendants living today, which means he had thousands of women in his lifetime.


I don't think rape counts... huh


Prove that he did rape.

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Mon 09/29/14 10:52 AM



I believe it has an effect. I was raised with the teaching that sex should only be between a husband and wife, and I still believe that.


So you were told to live de facto in celibacy till you get someone to marry you?
I'm glad to see a person who doesnt place great importance on sex. Helluva willpower you got there, man. I couldn't live like that.


Hmmm... Doesn't this place a HUGE importance on sex??


Sex is like air. You normally don't put much importance on it... until you're suddenly not getting any.

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Sun 09/28/14 06:35 PM

I believe it has an effect. I was raised with the teaching that sex should only be between a husband and wife, and I still believe that.


So you were told to live de facto in celibacy till you get someone to marry you?
I'm glad to see a person who doesnt place great importance on sex. Helluva willpower you got there, man. I couldn't live like that.

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Sun 09/28/14 04:29 PM
Melissia Williamson - I want Love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCz-0F8qTN0

damn good song

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Sun 09/28/14 04:06 PM
Finders keepers.

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Sun 09/28/14 01:08 PM
Hehe curse me now but you KNOW when you're alone no one is looking...
You ARE going to play it
Europe - Final Countdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jK-NcRmVcw

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Sun 09/28/14 12:55 PM
Edited by valtheponytail35 on Sun 09/28/14 12:55 PM
I wouldn't mind becoming an artist and
among the other things I'd like to do
A lifesize oil painting of my future girl.

Got the skill, will find the motivation and hopefully she brings the
inspiration. That's all I need to get started.

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Sun 09/28/14 12:48 PM
That one got pretty close
Sunrise Ave.- I Don't Dance
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z21ymHjJNNs

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Sun 09/28/14 12:39 PM
Dream Theater - Learning to live
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxAZT8IJD9w

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Sun 09/28/14 12:36 PM
Megadeth - 99 Ways to Die
(jk laugh )
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oPYAsbOpTtQ

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Sun 09/28/14 12:28 PM
I got no certain favourites, it totally depends on the mood.
Atm. my mood list is this:

Stratovarius - Halycon Days
Epica - Mother of Light
X-Panda - Revelation

Paradise Lost - One Second
Opeth - Blackwater park
Within Temptation - It's the Fear
Edenbridge - Shadowplay
Rammstein - Ich Will

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Sun 09/28/14 12:09 PM

one must remember back in the days of old... women weren't as plentiful as they are today..... so if a man wasn't on his best behavior.. and offended the lady... it could be a very long time before he has an opportunity.... to impress the next lady.. .. like maybe never....


BS. if you referring to mid-19 century then yeah marriage might have been a tough cookie but you had slaves to take care of your everyday business, and after abolition you still had maids.

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Sun 09/28/14 11:32 AM

Does anyone feel the same way? So hard 2 find the right one ehh


How long have you been actively looking?

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