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Topic: do you believe?
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Mon 06/02/08 10:11 AM
My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?

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Mon 06/02/08 10:12 AM
I would say maintain the friendship, and if again he says it or things become more, roll with it.

Cambolaya65's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:12 AM
penis talk,blow it off(not literally)

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Mon 06/02/08 10:13 AM

penis talk,blow it off(not literally)


too bad he's a virgin and waiting for marriage. laugh

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Mon 06/02/08 10:13 AM
I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker

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Mon 06/02/08 10:14 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker


Exactly!!! Very well put!! flowerforyou

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Mon 06/02/08 10:15 AM

I would say maintain the friendship, and if again he says it or things become more, roll with it.
most of the truth comes after a beer or two in England referred to as "Dutch Courage"
JUST THOUGHT YOU MAY WISH TO KNOW:smile: flowerforyou Good luck How would you feel if that was true?

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Mon 06/02/08 10:15 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker


ughhh...lol its just...i kinda always had a crush on him. and once he said a few beers was in him...i kinda...went blah. laugh

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Mon 06/02/08 10:16 AM
the first....he got emotional because of drinking...but in drinking...generally the truth comes out. He prolly does feel that way about you...but you were prolly stunned acting and it made him feel upset and outta place so he decided he should tell you that he slipped and didn't mean it because he didn't get the reaction he was looking for or wanted.You broke his heart in short. But he doesn't want to look stupid er anything...and this is why he retracted the comment.If you woulda been happy about it...he would be still making love comments....pretty sure.

Just a note.....I think you should give the guy the chance...just fer the record.You might be shocked at how it goes..Hope this helps. Best of luck.

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Mon 06/02/08 10:16 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker
why you and I always say the same thing in different words Val. Interestingflowerforyou

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Mon 06/02/08 10:16 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker



I agree this is possible, but this sober man sounds like he might be in denial. A very dangerous situation for a girl to get into.

Focus on the friendship until you have VERY good reason to focus on anything else.flowerforyou

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Mon 06/02/08 10:17 AM
grumble Check him into a Rehab !!!!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 06/02/08 10:17 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker

Here here!!!

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Mon 06/02/08 10:18 AM

the first....he got emotional because of drinking...but in drinking...generally the truth comes out. He prolly does feel that way about you...but you were prolly stunned acting and it made him feel upset and outta place so he decided he should tell you that he slipped and didn't mean it because he didn't get the reaction he was looking for or wanted.You broke his heart in short. But he doesn't want to look stupid er anything...and this is why he retracted the comment.If you woulda been happy about it...he would be still making love comments....pretty sure.

Just a note.....I think you should give the guy the chance...just fer the record.You might be shocked at how it goes..Hope this helps. Best of luck.


so instead of ignoring all the "I love yous" I should tell him how i feel? lol but what if he didn't mean it? do i get to kick ya?

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Mon 06/02/08 10:18 AM
I don't know how much truth there is to this but someone told me that you speak the truth more when you are drunk because your guard is down. I don't know.

When he said that were you receptive? If not, maybe he's just saying he didn't mean it to save face.

JMO

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Mon 06/02/08 10:19 AM

grumble Check him into a Rehab !!!!!!!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh :tongue:

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Mon 06/02/08 10:19 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker



sorry i'll stop talking when i'm drinking from now on:cry:

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Mon 06/02/08 10:21 AM
Edited by IamMewhoRU on Mon 06/02/08 10:22 AM


the first....he got emotional because of drinking...but in drinking...generally the truth comes out. He prolly does feel that way about you...but you were prolly stunned acting and it made him feel upset and outta place so he decided he should tell you that he slipped and didn't mean it because he didn't get the reaction he was looking for or wanted.You broke his heart in short. But he doesn't want to look stupid er anything...and this is why he retracted the comment.If you woulda been happy about it...he would be still making love comments....pretty sure.

Just a note.....I think you should give the guy the chance...just fer the record.You might be shocked at how it goes..Hope this helps. Best of luck.


so instead of ignoring all the "I love yous" I should tell him how i feel? lol but what if he didn't mean it? do i get to kick ya?


LOL....Sure.You can kick me. I really think he meant it...or at least he would like to know if those feelings he is feeling are accurate also.Kinda in the same position as you.Talk about it a little bit and be adults.Maybe try something but both agree and know ahead of time that you will NOT lose friendship for each other. This is going to be risky no matter what unless you just say screw it and don't try to do anything but then you get the "what if" syndrome.

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Mon 06/02/08 10:21 AM


I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker



sorry i'll stop talking when i'm drinking from now on:cry:


flowerforyou aw dont.

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Mon 06/02/08 10:22 AM


I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker



sorry i'll stop talking when i'm drinking from now on:cry:
that is just what I was thinkin bro.

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