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Topic: What would you do?
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:56 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 08/04/08 03:56 PM
:smile: If you were tryin to make an ex leave you alone and they threatened suicide every time you told them to leave you alone what would you do??:smile: How would you feel? :smile:

30andbored's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:57 PM
I kept going back until they found another penis to bounce on . . don't think I would still react the same way but it was my first relationship =P

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:57 PM
Make it quick & leave me the hell alone:tongue:

lifestooshort6's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:58 PM
been there...done that

yeah whatever...he's still alive

Moondark's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:58 PM
Call the cops, say your ex is harrassing you and threating suicide. And that you think they should take the ex to the hospital.

jimmy99005's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:58 PM
Call the paddy wagon to come get them!

radiance's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:59 PM
That happened to me. I stopped taking his calls. Removed him from my address list and moved on.

no photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:59 PM
wouldnt bother with it,its not my fault if they wanna take their own lives

BrooklineBaby's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:00 PM
Stuck---------------noway

I would WITHOUT A DOUBT call the local Mental Health Center for advice IMMEDIATELY hon--------and NEVER think even for a second that they won't go through with it, even if you're 99% sure cause it's that "I'll show him" 1% that will.......

If it's got to do with you or someone you know....Good luck my friendflowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:00 PM
Sorry for sounding so cold-hearted, but I'd call their bluff. If they are that stupid to kill them self over a man or women then they have some serious issues.


laughsandgiggles's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:01 PM
weeeeelll im going to sound heartless here but I would leave anyway. They are on their own.

What they are doing is emotional blackmail and they aren't really going to commit suicide- someone who is truly going to kill themselves is not going to tell you about it.

If I feel the relationship is truly over- i would not feel at all guilty about walking away. Over is over as far as Im concerned.

I would still care but you can't be responsible for someone's actions.

mcattygarnett's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:02 PM

Sorry for sounding so cold-hearted, but I'd call their bluff. If they are that stupid to kill them self over a man or women then they have some serious issues.



ditto

it is not a easy thing to do, but you have to do it.

feistybaby's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:06 PM
I would try to get them help for thier mental health issues. A suicide threat should always be taken seriously. And while I wouldn't resume the relationship that wouldn't keep me from trying to get them the help they needed from a distance.

darkowl1's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:11 PM

Call the cops, say your ex is harrassing you and threating suicide. And that you think they should take the ex to the hospital.


bingo. just carry a weapon for when he or she gets out of the hospital.

ItsSUNNYinDaytona's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:12 PM
Edited by ItsSUNNYinDaytona on Mon 08/04/08 04:15 PM
He is still mantaining CONTROL over you. * He would have committed suicide by now if he were going to. * At least that's what my therapist for Post Traumatic Stress related to extreme and exenstive domestic violence told me. * Kindly keep in mind you are only responsible for your behavior, only he has control over his.
I know only to well just how hard it is.
SUNNY

myssfytz's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:13 PM
one of my ex's stalked me for a while after i left him.my moms house, his moms and our old apt were in same neighborhood.i kept ignoring him, but finally had to call his mom and tell her to keep him way from me and stop calling etc or id call the cops and let them stop it for me.


so she talked, and he apparently listened.

rainysky39's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:14 PM

been there...done that

yeah whatever...he's still alive

Ditto...this has happened alot

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:17 PM
Been there,
Done that
He freaked me out,
I told him if he ever does that again
He won't have to commit suicide
I would kill him instead....

bad_girl's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:19 PM
I agree here

Sorry for sounding so cold-hearted, but I'd call their bluff. If they are that stupid to kill them self over a man or women then they have some serious issues.



lifestooshort6's photo
Mon 08/04/08 04:19 PM


been there...done that

yeah whatever...he's still alive

Ditto...this has happened alot


tell them not to forget you in the will, i know this sounds rude but you know what....they are being terrible for saying that...I am still mad about it...I went back to him and look what it got me....another 2 1/2 years of wedded HELL and a third child he treats like sh!t

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