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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. |
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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Wed 08/13/08 04:34 PM
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. Excuse me if I try to TRUST people until I have a reason not to. I did NOT speak to him much at ALL until today. He winked, waved, starred me down even for 3 weeks. Excuse me for thinking that maybe somebody might like to get to know me. He could have said he was married when I GAVE him that number, instead of calling me last night to try and set up a date. I told him "lets talk about it later b/c I have my nephew here". I don't like my nephew knowing ANYTHING about ANYONE unless I know it will be anything serious. I did NOT notice his ring until this morning. His got a HUGE hand, the ring is a very thin gold band almost the color of his finger. Had it not been for the lighting reflecting off of it at work I STILL would not have noticed. He and I work in different parts of the building, its not like I got the chance to stare at his hand before today. We work in telefundraising, most of the time I'm busy working not checking men for wedding rings. Why is it I'm to blame in this? I'M not the MARRIED one trying to hook up with people! I do not have the responsibility to his wife, HE DOES. Luckily for her I'm not the type to try and be with anyone else's significant other, I have way too much respect for it. |
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. WOW, that's pretty judgemental...HE'S the one who is married, and HE'S the one who should make sure his flirtations are understood to be purely in jest, and HE'S the one who took the vows to his wife and HE'S the one who asked for her number, and HE'S the one who took it without a word about his wife. Get off this girl she didn't do sh*t wrong.... |
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. WOW, that's pretty judgemental...HE'S the one who is married, and HE'S the one who should make sure his flirtations are understood to be purely in jest, and HE'S the one who took the vows to his wife and HE'S the one who asked for her number, and HE'S the one who took it without a word about his wife. Get off this girl she didn't do sh*t wrong.... Thank you Lily  You people do realize that had I been LESS observant we could have hooked up and it STILL would not have been my fault. Instead I ASKED questions. |
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Edited by
eileena9
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Wed 08/13/08 04:43 PM
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. WOW, that's pretty judgemental...HE'S the one who is married, and HE'S the one who should make sure his flirtations are understood to be purely in jest, and HE'S the one who took the vows to his wife and HE'S the one who asked for her number, and HE'S the one who took it without a word about his wife. Get off this girl she didn't do sh*t wrong.... Lily...I am not getting on her....all I am saying is that she claimed to check out a guy's hand first thing and didn't notice his ring. I admitted he was wrong for flirting with her and following thru with asking for her number. |
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. Everyone flirts...my parents are married 54 years and they both still flirt with others, they do not act on their flirting. If there was a ring on his ring finger of his left hand the first day you talked to him, why didn't you automatically think he might be married and not go any further with it? He didn't try to deceive you, he was wearing his ring all the while, but you responded to his flirting and gave him your number....... He was wrong for asking to spend time with you, but you claimed to check the ring-finger first thing, but proved you didn't notice his.......just pointing out discrepancies in your story, it makes things confusing. WOW, that's pretty judgemental...HE'S the one who is married, and HE'S the one who should make sure his flirtations are understood to be purely in jest, and HE'S the one who took the vows to his wife and HE'S the one who asked for her number, and HE'S the one who took it without a word about his wife. Get off this girl she didn't do sh*t wrong.... Lily...I am not getting on her....all I am saying is that she claimed to check out a guy's hand first thing and didn't notice his ring. I admitted he was wrong for flirting with her and following thru with asking for her number. Pardon me, but I automatically assume if a man is appearing to have an honest interest in me then he's single. I don't EXPECT married men to try and hook up with me. Maybe because I have so much respect for marriage I expect others to as well. |
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Lily...I am not getting on her....all I am saying is that she claimed to check out a guy's hand first thing and didn't notice his ring. I admitted he was wrong for flirting with her and following thru with asking for her number. But she DID notice it eventually, and DID ask him about it, and it seems like everyone is throwing her under the bus... I don't care if she DID see the ring, it's still his vows that HE took, she didn't take any vows to HIS wife.... She didn't do anything with him, and is pissed that HE did what he did, and I don't see why anyone has ANYTHING to say about it besides, "yes, this guy is an azzhole"??? |
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Lily...I am not getting on her....all I am saying is that she claimed to check out a guy's hand first thing and didn't notice his ring. I admitted he was wrong for flirting with her and following thru with asking for her number. But she DID notice it eventually, and DID ask him about it, and it seems like everyone is throwing her under the bus... I don't care if she DID see the ring, it's still his vows that HE took, she didn't take any vows to HIS wife.... She didn't do anything with him, and is pissed that HE did what he did, and I don't see why anyone has ANYTHING to say about it besides, "yes, this guy is an azzhole"??? Again, thank you. 
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My last comment on this topic......
She said she notices a guys ring finger first thing, first thing she checks out. She didn't notice his wedding ring and gave him her number. Yes he is an azz but of course he is going to call a woman who he has not hidden his ring from and has been flirting with him for weeks. All I asked was why didn't she notice his ring first off, and she answered that question. |
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i once waited 4 months before answering yes to then only find out the truths
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She didn't notice his wedding ring and gave him her number. Yes he is an azz but of course he is going to call a woman who he has not hidden his ring from and has been flirting with him for weeks. All I asked was why didn't she notice his ring first off, and she answered that question. He didn't make an effort to SHOW me the ring either. Most married men who cheat are not smart enough to think we actually LOOK for a ring in the first place. I had not to that point looked at his hands, period. I hadn't had the chance, and even took me a while to decide if I wanted to take the chance of even GIVING him my number b/c of how often I get hurt. |
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Btw,
Me being single and not completely fugly doesn't make me to blame. |
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My last comment on this topic...... She said she notices a guys ring finger first thing, first thing she checks out. She didn't notice his wedding ring and gave him her number. Yes he is an azz but of course he is going to call a woman who he has not hidden his ring from and has been flirting with him for weeks. All I asked was why didn't she notice his ring first off, and she answered that question. I don't care if she did a full background check on the guy, the point of the matter is that HE asked for her digits, and HE called her, and HE is a jerkoff, and we are making a federal case about what she SHOULD have done... Do we see how what HE DID trumps what she SHOULD have done??? |
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If you have been talking to him for WEEKS and the ring finger is the FIRST thing you look at when talking to a guy......how come you only noticed his ring AFTER you gave him your number? Why not ask him right then and there instead of asking another person? Humm that is the first thing I look at before even speaking to a guy and then if they don't wear one one of the first things I mention is well what would your girlfriend have to say? Shshs Never assume anything my ex did not wear a ring either due to his job so one should always be dbl sure when talking or specially when flirting with some one. Like they say better safe then sorry!! |
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I am truthful! I'm Morgan Fairchild's broth...... no, cousi..... I mean brother. Yeah, that's it, I'm Morgan Fairchild's brother! Yeahhhhh.
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It's the married person's obligation to NOT get involved in something that could be construed as "cheating"
As (and I can't believe I'm going to use this term for us) older and wiser women we DO ask things like that. |
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It's the married person's obligation to NOT get involved in something that could be construed as "cheating" As (and I can't believe I'm going to use this term for us) older and wiser women we DO ask things like that. You just said it learn to ask never assume!! Men are men they will flirt just as women will married or not hey the problem is not so much that they flirt it is when they act on that flirting is when the problems come in. |
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I am truthful! I'm Morgan Fairchild's broth...... no, cousi..... I mean brother. Yeah, that's it, I'm Morgan Fairchild's brother! Yeahhhhh. Lmao, ohhhhhhhhhh yeah humm ya can't remember if your the brother, son, cousin or distance relative lmao shshss   
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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Wed 08/13/08 05:23 PM
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It's the married person's obligation to NOT get involved in something that could be construed as "cheating" As (and I can't believe I'm going to use this term for us) older and wiser women we DO ask things like that. I do usually look at the left hand at first chance...lol. I can't ever seem to catch a break with the whole dating thing, I just got flattered that someone actually seemed interested. Doesn't happen much, I'm not exactly a 10. Even when guys DO act interested they either ONLY want sex, or get WAY too clingy WAY too fast for me. |
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Women also CHEAT and women also will TRY to use,,,but to say more men would be wrong as I HAVE MET THE LADIES who do that to,wink...
Bottom line is CHEATERS SUCK,,,and I have NO-TIME for them and their USING ways....Life is just simply,,TO DAMM SHORT. To waste even a day being fed Bull$hit!   
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