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Topic: How do you...
FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:03 PM
Approach someone at work? Now she doesn't work with me, she is a customer that comes in often and has shown interest in hanging out with...even offered to give me her address (a hell of a lot of good it would do as I'm lost in this town most of the time). So how do I go about asking her? Too me this is an awkward situation, that normally I would think most people would shy away from...perhaps I just overthink the situation. I just personally can't imagine someone getting all uppity over being asked out at a 7-11.what

andycraft's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:07 PM
she offered her address......take it

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:08 PM
:smile: A phone number would be better so you could talk to her or perhaps ask her to meet you somewhere, if she likes you.:smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:09 PM

she offered her address......take it


Yea...went through that, hence the little parenthesis...

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:10 PM

:smile: A phone number would be better so you could talk to her or perhaps ask her to meet you somewhere, if she likes you.:smile:


I was thinking that as well, I may try that Mirror...your pretty good with advice, no matter how creepy of a monkey you look like.drinker

seahawks's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:12 PM


:smile: A phone number would be better so you could talk to her or perhaps ask her to meet you somewhere, if she likes you.:smile:


I was thinking that as well, I may try that Mirror...your pretty good with advice, no matter how creepy of a monkey you look like.drinker
laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:13 PM
drinker Hint at where you go out at and what night,,,,and see if she says she MIGHT or WILL be there this week,wink,,,lol
Worked for me once...drinker

VladTheInhailer's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:15 PM
dude if she is givin her addy out at a gas n gub thats sayin somthin. good or bad is up to you...all in your eyes...sounds creepy

VladTheInhailer's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:15 PM
Edited by VladTheInhailer on Wed 08/13/08 11:16 PM
corn puffs

iRon's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:18 PM
Stock her dude......you have her address hang out side her windows at night and park across the street and take pictures of her house and then when she comes in to you business show them to her........That will get her attention.....


Disclaimer
Stocking is now illegal in all 50 states and is not funny.....



littleike's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:29 PM

:smile: A phone number would be better so you could talk to her or perhaps ask her to meet you somewhere, if she likes you.:smile:
take this advice get her number and if she dont have phone give her yours

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:31 PM

drinker Hint at where you go out at and what night,,,,and see if she says she MIGHT or WILL be there this week,wink,,,lol
Worked for me once...drinker


Already asked her about that, she doesn't go out really at all...which also creates an awkward situation as we would more then likely be hanging out at her place.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:32 PM

Stock her dude......you have her address hang out side her windows at night and park across the street and take pictures of her house and then when she comes in to you business show them to her........That will get her attention.....


Disclaimer
Stocking is now illegal in all 50 states and is not funny.....





I'm lost enough in this city, don't think I want to get lost in a foreign area.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:33 PM
if you are interested in her the same way she is in you.. whats the harm?

do as you please.. in the end only YOU know the right answer

dig deep

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:34 PM


drinker Hint at where you go out at and what night,,,,and see if she says she MIGHT or WILL be there this week,wink,,,lol
Worked for me once...drinker


Already asked her about that, she doesn't go out really at all...which also creates an awkward situation as we would more then likely be hanging out at her place.
BE stright forward and just ask....Most she can say is no,,,and she probably will say sure....drinker

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:34 PM

if you are interested in her the same way she is in you.. whats the harm?

do as you please.. in the end only YOU know the right answer

dig deep


Dig deep...for me that is like asking a brick wall too move.laugh

littleike's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:34 PM


drinker Hint at where you go out at and what night,,,,and see if she says she MIGHT or WILL be there this week,wink,,,lol
Worked for me once...drinker


Already asked her about that, she doesn't go out really at all...which also creates an awkward situation as we would more then likely be hanging out at her place.
sounds good hanging alone at her place at night, go for it!laugh laugh

scoundrel's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:37 PM
Too funny!
She did not accidentally forget her phone number, or accidentally say that she's not interested in dating in public with you. She deliberately made a big red "X Marks the Spot" on her address, gave it to you.
I understand that this is the reverse of the way things are done, but I like her style!
drinker

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:39 PM

Too funny!
She did not accidentally forget her phone number, or accidentally say that she's not interested in dating in public with you. She deliberately made a big red "X Marks the Spot" on her address, gave it to you.
I understand that this is the reverse of the way things are done, but I like her style!
drinker


That is my predicament, it is an odd style of going about things. I really just don't know how to respond to the situation, the question itself would be a 'yes' but in the given situation it puts me in a bit of a pickle.

scoundrel's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:25 AM
You could send a note, via florist delivery, to that address, with a card addressed to her.
"Thank you, for wanting to get acqauinted. I look forward to seeing you. Does (date/time) fits with your schedule?"
See what her response is.

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